Why Can’t I Pray? Hindrances to Prayer

Guest Post by: Gift Ekiuwa

We’ve all heard the advice, "Just pray”.

It’s the standard Christian answer for everything from a difficult marriage to unpaid bills. Then there is the weight of Scripture, the command to "pray without ceasing." For many of us, especially women carrying the multifaceted load of work, ministry, marriage, and motherhood, that command can feel less like an invitation and more like an impossible standard.

Lately, I’ve heard more women than ever whisper the same confession: I just can’t pray. If that is where you are today, please, stay with me and read until the end.

I want us to get honest about why this happens. This resistance usually comes from two places. To begin with, sometimes, this block is a form of spiritual warfare. But just as often, it’s not a demon; it’s just you. It’s your humanity. And God is not intimidated by either one. If you sat last night or even told yourself you were gonna pray more and harder this month but it’s not looking like it yet. Or you opened your mouth to pray, and nothing came out, catching yourself dozing. Please know this: you are not backsliding, and you are not a bad Christian. You are just human.

The "I can’t pray" struggle is a very heavy and silent burden. And the truth is you’re not the only one. I have been there more times than I can count, staring and just wondering what happened to my fire.

When you are balancing kids, a career, and ministry, the mental load is real. Yes I know. And when you hear how others are talking about this particular topic, or when someone tells you to be a prayerful woman– your heart might whisper back, “I want to, but I don’t even know how anymore. How do I get back there? What do I do?”

Let’s read Psalm 42:1-2. David writes, "As the deer pants for the water, so my soul pants for you." David was deeply thirsty for God, true, but he was also profoundly honest about his dryness. That’s some of us sometimes. God isn’t scared of your dryness, sis. He met David in the wilderness, and He will meet you there, too.

What is Prayer?

We have bought into a low-key, dangerous lie, that prayer must be a long, arranged, or undisturbed experience to count. We treat it like a luxury that’s reserved for those with quiet houses and empty schedules, rather than the very oxygen required to survive the chaos of adulthood. When we stop praying because life has become too much, we are actually cutting ourselves off from the only Source that can make the "too much" manageable.

Now, many of us measure the success of our prayer life by the clock. We think if we aren't spending an hour in a secret place, we are failing. But God is not looking for showmanship; He is looking for a presence. Because prayer isn't about the length of your speech; it is about the depth of your dependence. Just allow yourself to ease into it. The thing most people forget is that once you become consistent and allow the Holy Spirit to hold you, it won't feel like something you have to force yourself to do. You will begin to enjoy His presence; you will desire to remain in that space. Before you know it, two, three, or even seven hours will pass, and you’re still there. You become consistent.

We should never forget that prayer is not just you pouring out; it is you sitting in His presence to be refilled. When we have no words, a sigh or a moment of stillness is also a prayer of surrender that He (God) hears perfectly. That’s the reason why, when you kneel to pray, don’t rush. Sit and let Him father your soul. Begin with worship and thanksgiving. Prayer requires order; it is not something you rush through on your way to the next task.

Hindrances to Prayer

As Paul describes in Romans 8, our human nature is wired for comfort. So the moment you decide to pray, your flesh will remind you of the unwashed dishes, the urgent email, or the need for sleep. The flesh doesn’t want to be inconvenienced by the Spirit. This is why the disciples fell asleep in Gethsemane; they were human, tired, and under spiritual pressure. You aren't bad for feeling resistance. But recognize also, that this resistance is a sign that what you are about to do is exactly what the enemy does not want you to do.

Like we saw earlier, the inability to pray is a spiritual battle. When the enemy sees you in a season of transition, becoming a mother, advancing in your career, taking on more responsibility, he knows your influence is growing. And he knows a woman who prays is a force that can dismantle his plans. Woman. A praying mother changes atmospheres, a praying single lady hears God clearly, a praying wife breaks cycles. So the moment you say “I want to pray”, the distraction, shame, and heaviness show up to stop you. The blockade you feel is often spiritual warfare disguised as life. Do not submit to the silence.

When you feel most blocked, you are standing on the precipice of a breakthrough. The enemy thrives in your isolation; he loses his power the moment you invite God into your stress, even if that invitation is just one sentence whispered while driving.

Overcoming Hindrances to Prayer

So, the question becomes what do we do? That's reclaim your prayer life. Turn your perspective from doing prayer to living in a state of prayer. Yes, you can start small. If you can’t get thirty minutes, give God thirty seconds. Pray in the ordinary, sisters. Brother Lawrence called it “practicing the presence of God”. He proves you don't need to be a "prayer warrior" with perfect words. You just need to keep your heart turned toward God in daily life.

Are you washing the dishes? Say, "Jesus, wash me too.” Walking to work? Say within you, "Holy Spirit, go before me.” According to Pastor David Hernandez, "Living a day or a week without prayer is saying Holy Spirit I don’t need you.” And sincerely, if you really want to be able to pray consistently and survive well the way God intended, you want to see God's hand and movement in and through you, you need to just be able to practice His presence daily. Let the awareness of His presence within you become deeply real. Learn to include Him in whatever you are doing. Even when you’re putting your kids to bed, whisper, “Father, bless them.” 

That’s not less spiritual, dear woman. You’re simply aligning with the scripture that’s in Luke 21:36, which says, “Pray at all times.” Pray while you commute, or shower. Relationship is built on consistent, short touchpoints, not just grand, orchestrated meetings. Also, stop trying to manage it. The biggest trap is thinking, "I’ll pray once I get this situation under control." You won't. You need God to get it under control. Admit to Him, “Lord, I am exhausted, I am distracted, and I need Your help." That is more powerful than a memorized liturgy. This is what we see with Jesus in Luke 22:42-46.

Elijah too was fed and rested before God spoke to him in 1 Kings 19. If you are exhausted, wash your face or drink a glass of water. Don’t try to fight your flesh on an empty tank. Fuel your body as well. Engage your senses, when your mind wanders. Read a Psalm, like Psalm 23, out loud. Engaging your mouth and ears anchors your mind in the Truth. Fight that shame with the gospel truth. When guilt says, “You’re a bad Christian”, reply, “I’m a daughter (Romans 8:15). And the Spirit is helping me right now.”  And Jesus already prayed for you in John 17. So you are not praying alone.

Lastly, don't wait for the feeling. If you wait until you "feel" like praying, you will rarely pray. Believe me. Build it into your schedule as a non-negotiable appointment, like we've discussed. 

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Beginning Again, With Grace

So, dear sister, the season you are in is not an excuse to step away from God; it is the primary reason you must draw closer. If you’ve been drifting, today is not the day for guilt. Today is the day to simply say, "I'm back, Lord." In Mark 14:35-36; Jesus, in His darkest moment, didn't offer a five-point prayer. He simply said, "Abba, Father." When your words fail, go back to "Daddy." Romans 8:15 reminds us that the Spirit helps us cry out, "Abba, Father." That is enough. Watch how God turns your stress into a testimony.

There’s this story I love in Luke 10:42. Martha was busy doing many things. Mary chose the one thing. Please note that God is not asking for your production— He’s asking for you, just you. Give Him you.

That desire to pray, even when it feels dry? That is the Holy Spirit drawing you (John 6:44). If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t feel the tension. So choose what’s best today and always, and I pray that God will help and replace your weakness with His strength and I pray for you also that His peace will chase every anxiety and fear. And may His right hand uphold you continuously. Amen

In what specific area of your daily life, whether it’s early morning, during work, or in the chaos of childcare, do you find it hardest to carve out that moment of connection with God? We aren't fighting our bodies; we are training them.

Let’s begin again, not with guilt, but with grace. Please take some time to pray this prayer:

Father, thank You that You do not despise small beginnings. Teach my flesh faithfulness, and not perfection. I give You these 5 minutes today. Train my body to remember You. Abba, I’m here. Amen

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Putting God First

What is the first thing you think about upon waking in the morning? What do you spend the bulk of your day pondering? What is the number one priority on your to-do list most days?

All of the personal reflection questions above beg us to slow down and consider our ways. We’d all likely agree that it is good to stop and reflect on these questions on a regular basis; however, we’d also likely agree that we’re normally too busy to do so. We wake up and hit the ground running, ready to slay another day and get the job done. We go about our business with no time to waste. And sister, herein lies the problem— we go about our business, ready to take part in our commitments and complete what we have determined to do that day. The problem isn’t that what we’re committed to or partaking in isn’t important, or oftentimes necessary; the problem is that sometimes our priorities don’t match the Lord’s priorities for our lives. 

For this same reason, God called a prophet named Haggai to bring a message to His people. After 70 years of exile in Babylon, they had returned and were able to begin rebuilding the temple. The foundation was laid, sparking joy and great praise to the Lord (Ezra 3:10-13). Yet, after facing opposition from adversaries, rebuilding of the temple ceased and there was no more building for 16 years. 

Here’s where the prophet Haggai steps on the scene, calling out his fellow Jews for failing to make God a priority. God pointed out to them, using the mouth of Haggai, that their hearts were in a place where they didn’t believe it was time to rebuild the temple. They were content to live in the houses they’d taken the time to labor over, but laboring over God’s temple was still a thing to be put off. Whether consciously or subconsciously, they were not putting God first.

Before we move on, I encourage you to pull out your Bible and read Haggai (it’s only 2 chapters!) for full context.

Consider Your Ways

Opposition causes stress, discomfort, fear, and can be debilitating. Having likely experienced each of these things when dealing with their adversaries while initially building the temple, it’s understandable why they would want to cease. Yet, in the passage of time, God’s people had gotten comfortable. They were comfortable pursuing what they desired, while what God had called them to do lay in ruins.

Before we get too judgmental, I’m sure we can each think of a time or two when we’ve done the same. We heard clearly from the Lord, and perhaps even began to pursue the next thing He called us to; however, something tripped us up. Or, perhaps we just got a little weary, and we “needed a break”. A short break from obedience often turns to hesitancy to start again; a distraction here, a distraction there; or choosing to focus on something a little more “exciting”. But sister, a short break from obedience is summed up in one word: disobedience.

In those times, like the returned exiles, we need to wake up and consider our ways! That was God’s call to His people (Haggai 1:5; 7). This phrase means to put your heart on your path— the path that is God’s path. The temple represented God’s immediate and intimate presence among them, and not completing the temple meant that their proper worship to Him was put on hold. Instead of seeking His face— His presence— other things seemed more important. 

What makes us value other aspects of our life more, or view things as more urgent than the Lord’s direction? Simply put, our priorities aren’t right. We think it’s time to “dwell in paneled houses” (verse 4) but the time is passing by and we need to redeem it well by doing what the Lord wants us to do. When we don’t redeem the time well we will constantly say, just as the Jews in Haggai’s day, “the time has not come that the LORD’s house should be built,” (verse 2). We will stay busy building other things, but whatever else we are building, unless the Lord builds it, we labor in vain (Psalm 127:1). Making God a priority means we build our life in Him, not focus on other things. It has to start with us prioritizing Him, so that it’s truly Him who is working in us to build what He’s called us to. 

When We’re Not Putting God First

Putting God first starts internally, with a decision. From there we must determine to be immovable in that decision— no distractions or discouragements strong enough to pull us in a different direction. Easier said than done, would you agree?

No, it isn’t easy, sister. But praise the Lord we have the Spirit to guide us, remind us of Scripture, and continually direct us back to the things of the Lord. The Jews in Haggai’s day didn’t have Him living within them. They weren’t born again. Is that an excuse for their delayed obedience? Hardly. They knew what they were to do! What it is is more of a conviction for us— the fact that we do have the Holy Spirit means we have much less of any excuse to put off the things of the Lord!

Not putting God first happens easily when we aren’t yielding to the direction He’s giving us. We begin to listen to our own thoughts, be influenced by the world and the direction culture is heading, or follow the advice of others. Like the Jews, we do not consider our ways. Is this the track on which we want our life? Haggai 1:6 shows the results of building on our own in vain:

You have sown much, and bring in little;

You eat, but do not have enough;

You drink, but you are not filled with drink;

You clothe yourselves, but no one is warm;

And he who earns wages,

Earns wages to put into a bag with holes.

The LORD God basically told them to consider their ways and take a look at the outcome— they were doing lots of work, yet with no results to show for it, or no profitable impact in their lives. They had food, drink, clothing and money— but not enough. They were essentially toiling and spinning their wheels.

When our priorities are off and we aren’t focused on our abundant God, we lack in all areas of life. We may have all the right things and the necessities in life to be grateful for, yet these things can almost become a point of stress for us because we don’t quite have enough. We can be simultaneously surviving and lacking. 

If we’re noticing this pattern in our lives, it may help to consider our ways and determine if our hearts are truly set on Him. As His children, we cannot be so set on building up our personal economy that we neglect building the things of the Lord. Worldly considerations cannot be placed ahead of our spiritual health and our relationship with Him.

Putting God First is About Our Hearts

As I was reading through Haggai, I came across a commentary that mentioned something to the effect of this: the returned exiles’ failure to complete a suitable house of worship for the LORD was holding them back from the prosperity they sought. At that moment, I felt the Lord speak to my heart in the same regard, in that the similar struggles we have at times in my own family— feeling like we are constantly working, producing, and serving, but having little or nothing to show for it— do we have the same problem as the Jews did? Are we focused on other priorities, building things that God would not have us build, or building without Him?

This isn’t to say that seeking God first means that we’ll always be living in prosperity and abundance— that certainly is not true either. But it’s not about the end result of gaining abundance and wealth; it’s about our hearts.

God loves His children, and He desires for us to rely on Him because that is truly the only way we will make it in this life. He knows our hearts, thoughts, and the intentions behind our actions, and will draw us to Him in various ways. When we look at Haggai 1:7-11, we see that God was obviously very aware of His people’s intentions and their attempts to build their own lives, but He didn’t just let them continue to go astray. The lack they experienced, the frustration of working hard to produce, yet having little— that was God’s doing. Their harvest amounted to little and what little they did bring home, He blew away; He held back the heavens, called for a drought, and withheld the earth from producing favorably for them. 

Why? Because He was mean? No! Because of His great love for them. God wanted them to see the error of their ways so they would know that building anything without Him is futile, so that they’d instead learn to build what He had called them to build first. God wanted to be glorified in their work and subsequent worship at the temple (verse 8) but that couldn’t happen because their lavish houses only glorified themselves. 

This begs a question for us, sister, as we in Christ are now temples of God.

“Do you not know that you are the temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you?”

— ‭‭I Corinthians‬ ‭3‬:‭16‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

That question being: Have we neglected the building of the temple (us) to instead build what we want and desire? Who we are in Him is to be honoring to Him. We should be building that first by seeking first the kingdom of God (Matthew 6:33), so all other things can be added to us, not the other way around. Perhaps you are in a place in your life where you have been making God your first priority. You’re actively allowing Him to build you up, and you’re solely focused on His will. Praise the Lord! But, if you’re like me, and you’re seeing some areas where you are toiling and producing little, or you feel the tug of not necessarily being 100% focused on what He has for you right now, I ask you to join me in considering your ways! It’s time for us to be more concerned with pleasing the Lord than pleasing ourselves and our own comfortability.

The Joy Found in Obedience and Putting God First

What a joy when we come to the place where our hearts turn in the right direction and we put God first. When God is speaking to us; prompting us to move in a certain direction; or giving us explicit directions, if we truly have the fear of the Lord we will follow. This is in fact what we see as we move along in our text, in Haggai 1:12. Beginning with the leadership, and with the people following suit, the Israelites, “obeyed the voice of the LORD their God…and the people feared the presence of the LORD.” They took a step back and considered their ways. They were ready to care what God thought and if He approved of their behavior. Ultimately, they were ready to obey His Word.

“And now, Israel, what does the Lord your God require of you, but to fear the Lord your God, to walk in all His ways and to love Him, to serve the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul…”

— ‭‭Deuteronomy‬ ‭10‬:‭12‬ ‭NKJV

They truly began to fear the LORD, walk in His ways, love Him, and serve Him with all their hearts and souls. May this be where we land as well. Despite the cause of our struggles— whether they be self-imposed, due to disobedience, or spiritual in nature— when we turn our hearts back to the Lord and make the decision to be obedient, we can know that the Lord is giving us the strength to do what He’s called us to do, and He is there with us in the process. We have nothing to fear (Haggai 1:13; 2:4-5). Just like in His interaction with His people in Haggai’s day– despite our lost priorities, distractions, or focusing on other things, when we truly “about face” and turn back to the Lord’s ways, He is right there, still willing to be with us. 

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We Turn Back and God Stirs Up

True, God is with us, but He also steps in and works. He isn’t waiting idly like a bystander just watching us strive in the work He’s called us to. It’s His work, and we need His strength! And this is exactly what He provides for us. 

Not only was God with His people as they turned back to Him, ready to build the temple, but He went the extra measure and stirred up the spirit of the leaders and all the people. It wasn’t about self-motivation or waiting for an inspirational talk of some sort. Haggai’s message from the Lord brought conviction, caused them to turn back, and God infused them with the zeal they needed to take on His task. But, He couldn’t do this until their hearts were in the right place and they properly feared and regarded God. He was not going to force them to rebuild the temple.

The phrase “stirred up” in Haggai 1:14 means to arouse or awaken. God literally woke up the part of His people that was sleep or dull! He lit a fire and gave them the strength to do His will. As I said, this stirring wasn’t just a feel-good experience– it caused them to take action.

Are we looking for that next self-help book, motivational speaker, or inspiring TED Talk to ignite us into action? Don’t misunderstand– books are helpful and talented speakers can be great to listen to from time to time. However, the true zeal we need to pursue what God is calling us to do is found in Him! It’s the good work that He has prepared for us and that He has called us to do; therefore, He knows what strength, gumption, and spark we need to not only get started, but also to accomplish it. We look to Him.

Putting God First and Keeping God First

How do we put God first? Putting God first isn’t necessarily about a checklist, but allow me to provide for you a quick summary of what was just shared. If you’re wondering how to put God first, please don’t view this as an extensive list or directive– these are simply the things the Lord pointed out to me as I was studying the Scripture.

1. We consider our ways. We put our hearts on the path that is God’s path.

2. We remove our focus from other things, and decide to build our life in Him.

3. Yield to the direction of the Holy Spirit.

4. Seek first the kingdom of God.

5. Fear the Lord and choose obedience.

6. Continue to look to God and rely on His strength.

But then what?

There’s danger in thinking that what we’ve now started with Him we somehow then continue to carry it out in our strength and by our own means (Galatians 3:3). The truth of the matter is that sometimes the things the Lord calls us to are big. They seem daunting. They get hard. No doubt, rebuilding God’s temple would be any different!

As we look at Haggai 2, we notice the chapter begins with the LORD bringing encouragement to the leaders and the people. 

“‘Who is left among you who saw this temple in its former glory? And how do you see it now? In comparison with it, is this not in your eyes as nothing? Yet now be strong, Zerubbabel,’ says the Lord; ‘and be strong, Joshua, son of Jehozadak, the high priest; and be strong, all you people of the land,’ says the Lord, ‘and work; for I am with you,’ says the Lord of hosts.  ‘According to the word that I covenanted with you when you came out of Egypt, so My Spirit remains among you; do not fear!’ ”

— Haggai 2:3-5

At this point, they’d been working for the last month and perhaps they needed an encouraging word. So, God reminded them that even though it looked like ruins and a mess (compared to the original temple), it would eventually be restored to glory even greater than before. Their work would not be in vain.

And neither will ours.

The outcome and the final glory would be up to God, and belonged to God. But like the returned exiles, we play a part in the work– getting our hands dirty, laying the pieces, and building what He calls us to. Yet at the end of the day, it’s God’s construction, just as it was God’s temple, and He has plans and purposes for it.

Sister, will you consider your ways and make God a priority– not just today, but tomorrow, next week, next year? We are blessed to not only have the Spirit among us, but also in us as believers. That zeal, that fire, that strength and energy are constants in our lives if we don’t stifle them. Let it not be so. It’s not time for us to get comfy in our own four walls, for He is ready with the plans for what He’s calling us to build (in Him) next, for His glory.

Are we ready?

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How to Be Content: The Flaws in Our Selfish Expectations

Guest Post By: Tanya Hettler

Have you ever felt personally offended when you’re stuck in traffic? Or annoyed when you end up in the slow checkout line at the store? Do you find your attitude souring when you call customer service?

These everyday frustrations reveal how easily we slip into the mindset that the world should cater to our expectations. We forget how to be content.

Self-absorption comes naturally to us. We view life almost entirely from our own perspective and rarely pause to consider what others may be experiencing. Yet six of the Ten Commandments focus on how we treat other people. Clearly, our interactions with others matter deeply to God.

I once heard a speaker say that traffic is God’s way of reminding us that we are not the center of the universe. That simple statement has stayed with me.

Impatience

Years ago, I stood in a grocery line with a very slow cashier. The person with me became so impatient that he kicked the conveyor belt, knocking off a large metal panel with a loud clang. It is funny now—but at the time it was deeply embarrassing.

It’s easy to become so focused on our inconvenience that we lose sight of everyone else involved.

The same thing happens when we call customer service. We forget that the representative on the other end of the phone is a real person—and likely not personally responsible for our problem.

When I first began driving, I used to think it was incredibly inconsiderate that traffic would dare to make me late. It took many traffic jams before I realized something obvious: I was not the center of the universe. Everyone else stuck in that traffic was just as frustrated as I was.

Self-Denial

It’s easy to assume that whatever we are doing at the moment is the most important thing in the world. But Jesus challenges that mindset. In Luke 9:23–25 He says:

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will save it.”

— Luke 9:23–25

Jesus expresses the same truth in Matthew 6:33:

“Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

— Matthew 6:33

God’s kingdom is more important than our convenience. His purposes matter more than our schedules. We are called to reflect Christ to the world—yet how can we do that when we are irritated and demanding our own way?

Contentment in the Bible

Paul reminds us in 1 Timothy 6:6 that “godliness with contentment is great gain.” In Philippians 4:11–13, he writes:

“I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances… I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation… I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”

— Philippians 4:11–13

And this comes from the Apostle Paul—a man who suffered tremendously for the sake of Christ (see 2 Corinthians 11:23–27 for a sobering list of his trials).

Few of us can say we have endured more than Paul, yet even from prison, he urges believers to “Rejoice in the Lord always” (Philippians 4:4). His contentment was not rooted in comfort, but in Christ.

Be Quiet and Still

Scripture repeatedly encourages quietness and stillness instead of frantic striving. Our frustration in inconvenient moments often exposes a failure to trust God’s sovereignty and timing.

Psalm 46:10 reminds us, “Be still, and know that I am God.”

In 1 Thessalonians 4:11–12, Paul urges believers to “Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life… so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders.” A quiet life is not necessarily silent; it is steady, peaceful, and free from unnecessary drama. It reflects trust. It reflects a heart that has learned how to be content in the stillness of the presence of the Lord.

Anger, on the other hand, is incompatible with this posture. As 1 Corinthians 13:5 tells us, love is “not easily angered.”

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A Servant Heart

In Matthew 20:28, when two disciples seek positions of honor, Jesus redirects their ambition. He reminds them that greatness in His kingdom looks very different:

“The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.”

If Christ Himself came to serve, how can we insist on being served?

Paul echoes this in 1 Corinthians 10:24: “No one should seek their own good, but the good of others.” The Christian life shifts our focus from personal rights and convenience to the welfare of others.

We Owe Everything to God

Ultimately, we must remember that God created us and sustains us daily. Colossians 1:17 tells us that Jesus is “before all things, and in Him all things hold together.”

Hebrews 1:3 describes the Son as “the radiance of God’s glory… sustaining all things by His powerful word.”

Even our next breath is a gift. In view of God’s mercy, Romans 12:1 calls us to offer our bodies as living sacrifices—holy and pleasing to Him.

Our time is not truly ours. Our schedules are not ultimately ours. Our lives belong to Him.

Let Go of Expectations and Be Content in Him

In the end, our irritation in traffic, impatience in line, and frustration on the phone often reveal something deeper than inconvenience—they reveal our expectation that life should revolve around us.

But Scripture calls us to something better. Jesus calls us to deny ourselves, seek first His kingdom, live quietly, love patiently, and serve willingly.

When we remember that we owe everything to Him—our time, our plans, even our next breath—our perspective begins to change. The world is not here to serve us; we are here to reflect Christ.

Instead of demanding our rights, we can choose stillness over striving, patience over anger, and service over self-importance. And in those ordinary, inconvenient moments, we are given daily opportunities to display humility, trust, and the quiet strength of a life centered not on self, but on God.

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Dr. Tanya Hettler has a Ph.D. in psychology and worked as a Christian counselor and then as a researcher and writer for a conservative think tank. I have had a blog website called Deep Thoughts with Dr. Tanya for more than 10 years which you can see at www.tanyathedoc.com.

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Guest Post by: Ashley Wilcox

The word “enough” is a telling word. It reveals our hearts in an uncomfortable way. We ask ourselves a series of questions each day. Things like: Was I kind enough? Am I working out enough? Did the kids get enough vegetables at dinner last night? Does the car have enough gas in it? Am I making enough money? Did I do enough?

All those questions really lead back to one, burning question: Am I enough?

Is it possible for us to realize that we will never be enough while all at once realizing we are, in fact, enough? Much of the lack of confidence we have is simply because we believe we should be shouldering things that we should not be. Things that were never ours to carry, at least not solely.

I’m tired again and again because of the exhaustion of thinking that today, finally, I'm going to get everything right. I’m going to have a clean house, with all home-made snacks and there will not be a single dog hair on any surface. I will eat well, work out, not crave sugar and make sure my children are at every single extracurricular activity not only on time, but with matching socks on. I will excel at my job with a mind like a machine and win over anyone who thinks I’m not ready for a promotion. I will, I will, I will!

I don’t know about you, friend, but this happens to me more than I’d like to admit. I wouldn’t admit it of course because it would show that I wasn’t content. And if I’m not content then I must not be enough.

Jesus is Enough

Jesus is enough. Does that sound cliche to you? Stop for a moment. Take a deep breath. And hear this. Jesus is enough.

I know. You may think it’s easy to tie this up with a bow and throw some Jesus glitter on it, but that’s not what I’m saying to you today. I’m asking, would you look with me in scripture and in what you know to be true about God, and see that He is the “enough” we desperately seek. And the lack of our trust in Him, so easily happens, that we forget we aren’t the source. He is.

This isn’t a quick fix for frustration or burnout, but it is a real call to walk and abide with the Father and know where your help comes from.

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

— Matthew 11:28-30

So, what do I need to do to drop the yoke I’ve been carrying and instead take on the Lord’s? The good news is, it’s not one more thing for you to add to your to-do list or to be “enough” about. It’s abiding with Him. Jesus tells us to learn from Him as He is a gentle and humble teacher. He’s kind.

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He is All We Need

We can be tempted to think that we are the end-all, be-all. We can produce, perform, and persevere with the best of them, but are we doing it in the way the Lord is calling us to this moment? There is power in being still, realizing He is God, and that He is all we need. Grab your FREE 5-day devotional study, and remember that God is enough. Fill out the form below.

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God’s Grace is Enough

God meets us right where we are. He meets you doing the dishes, rushing to work, and in the quiet moments of your heart where you question yourself, and Him. He’s gentle and humble and isn’t agreeing with you about everywhere you think you fall short. Because our shortcomings aren’t off putting to God, they are a place where His glory will shine.

“But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.”

— 2 Corinthians 12:9

So first, be comforted that He hasn’t left you. He’s with you and strengthening you. Pull on that strength and courage and start walking out in the abiding presence of the One who promises to never forsake you.

Secondly, where are you striving? There’s a good chance that the striving and the trying you’re doing makes you feel like you're on a hamster wheel and you wonder if it’ll ever gain ground. I encourage you to strive for Him. When you have to strive, let it be to open the Word. When you need a moment, let it be in His presence. When you’re running late, let it be on His timeline. Let the striving cease when it chases after empty things, though sometimes necessary things. But let our focus shift to looking at Jesus because He fills every time. You will not leave feeling empty like other tasks, because a good Father feeds, comforts and shelters His children. You are visiting with and being blessed by Jesus, not checking something else off the to do list.

We’ve realized the truth and we’ve shifted our striving. So now what are we looking to accomplish? Dare I say, nothing. I don’t want you to pick up one more thing in your own strength or abilities, but to simply “be” for a while. Exist and know that He delights in you and you need to delight in Him. Let every step forward be by his guiding hand and steadfast love. Go when He says to go, rest when He says to rest, and realize that it is not on your shoulders, but that you are abiding in Jesus. That makes the yoke light. The only thing you have to do today, in everything you’ll be doing, is follow Him. You are enough because you are His, and He will shoulder the struggle while you carry out the purpose.

 Let me pray this over you today:

“The LORD bless you and keep you;

the LORD make his face shine on you and be gracious to you;

the LORD turn his face toward you and give you peace.”

(Numbers 6:24-26)

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Pride in the Bible: Avoiding the Worship of Self

Do you remember when you were little and everyone would ask you what you wanted to be when you grew up? What were your dreams? What were you determined to do with your life someday? These questions subconsciously put us on a track where we put ourselves in the driver’s seat, ready to steer and maneuver through life to reach the destination we desired. 

Is there anything wrong with thinking about the future? No. And quite honestly, there is nothing wrong with asking little ones what stirs their heart. In all of this, however, I think what’s missing is the training up of these young minds in the realization that, despite what we think or believe our future should look like, the first step is seeking the Lord and asking Him what He determines. Young minds turn into older minds, and as we grow, we gain a stronger sense of control and ability. And if we’ve already started to tightly grip the steering wheel as young ones, how much more so when we become young adults? 

Our world is consumed with the thought of “I”. I’m sure this comes as no surprise to you. It is all about us, our desires, our wishes, dreams, and plans. We should have it our way, do what makes us feel good, and live our own truth. The brand of many of our phones even begins with the letter i. 

Things are no longer black and white; true or false. In everything, there is the option to make it our own, and that then becomes the reality by which we’re allowed to live.

Where did we go wrong, sister? Or has it always been this way?

Since the Fall of mankind in the Garden of Eden (Genesis 3), pride has been a genetic trait passed down. In humanity’s sinful nature, we are prone to think that we know better than God; we can figure things out on our own; or, at minimum, what He has stated as absolute should be questioned because, well, just maybe, He got it wrong. 

I’m starting this article off with all the warm and fuzzies, huh, sister? ;)

Pride is such an important topic, and we need to talk about it. Why? Because if we aren’t careful, we can easily slip into bouts of pride in our lives (in so many areas), which in turn can lead us down the road of the worship of self. So let’s first talk a little about pride in the Bible so we can, as we always do around here, gain a biblical perspective. 

One Example of Pride in the Bible

Ok– I’m sure you, like me, can think of so many examples of people in the Bible who led prideful lives, or at least struggled with pride at one point or another. We could be here all day comparing our lists! For now, let me just share something I recently read in the book of Isaiah that was very interesting to me. In fact, I think so many– believers and non-believers alike– can slip into this mindset very easily if we aren’t truly seeking the Lord’s perspective in life.

In Isaiah 47, we read that Babylon had a problem with pride (surprise, surprise). Twice in this chapter, God, through the prophet Isaiah, was sure to tell us that they said in their heart, “I am, and there is no one else besides me.”  Wow. Their wisdom and knowledge may have been great, but these two things warped their minds and led them to a place where they only had trust in themselves. Therefore, God brought them low.

“Now, then, hear this, you luxuriant one, who lives securely, who says in her heart, ‘I am, and there is no one besides me. I will not sit as a widow, Nor know the loss of children.’ “But these two things will come on you suddenly in one day: Loss of children and widowhood. They will come on you in full measure in spite of your many sorceries, in spite of the great power of your spells. You felt secure in your wickedness and said, ‘No one sees me,’ your wisdom and your knowledge, they have led you astray; for you have said in your heart, ‘I am, and there is no one besides me.’”

— ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭47‬:‭8‬-‭10‬ ‭NASB2020‬‬

Let’s back up a bit to gain the context. Verses 5-7 tell us that God used Babylon as an instrument to bring judgment to His people, yet Babylon showed no mercy on them. Their pride led them to think that since they were “so great”, the overtaking of God’s people was solely due to them, and therefore they could act however they pleased. They failed to see that God was truly in control and was orchestrating His sovereign will. They truly believed that there was “no one beside themselves”. 

But our God is a just God! Not only just, but He is also humble, even as the One who set all things into motion! He does not deal with pride lightly. Although those who exude pride may seem to flourish for a time, eventually they will be brought low, naturally, and inevitably by the mighty hand of God (Proverbs 16:18; 29:23). This is exactly what we saw happen with Babylon.

The Dangers of the Worship of Self

Unfortunately, sister, this message is more of a sobering one. I don’t have a lot of happy-go-lucky stories or encouraging words quite yet. Pride is serious. Pride is what got the enemy in the predicament he’s in. Pride is sin– and we must begin seeing it for what it is.

We all want a sense of control over so many aspects of our lives, and yes, God in His grace has given us free will. We are totally and completely free to choose what we do or don’t do. Yet, God desires that we choose to humbly bow to His will– to surrender our wants, desires, and control to Him, so He can lead and direct us. As His daughters, our desire should be for the Lord to sit on the throne of our hearts, not ourselves. When we’re on the throne, we’ve stepped into the realm of the worship of self. Again, sister, this is what Satan desired–

“How you are fallen from heaven,
O Lucifer, son of the morning!
How you are cut down to the ground,
You who weakened the nations!
For you have said in your heart:
‘I will ascend into heaven,
I will exalt my throne above the stars of God;
I will also sit on the mount of the congregation
On the farthest sides of the north;
I will ascend above the heights of the clouds,
I will be like the Most High.’
Yet you shall be brought down to Sheol,
To the lowest depths of the Pit.”

— Isaiah 14:12-15 NKJV

He wanted his own throne. He desired to be in control; to be worshipped. Like the Babylonians who followed, Satan thought there was no one besides him and that’s the way it should be. 

Our caution is to not fall into the same mindset. Unfortunately, the world tries to bend us in this direction– one where we are in control and call all of the shots; one where we are the center of attention so we can be worshipped; or, in the least, a world where perhaps we don’t demand everyone else’s worship, but certainly demand our own (of ourselves).

This is the way of the world as it tempts us with the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life. And, this is why it’s so important to love the Lord more than we love the world and love ourselves. Our desire must be His will– not our own (1 John 2:15-17).

When we kindle our own fire, producing our own light, truly, it is still darkness! (Isaiah 50:11) And we can be sure that just as with the enemy, the LORD God will bring us low. 

Walk in the Light to Relinquish Pride

Instead of walking in darkness— which leads to pride— light is found in trusting in the name of the Lord. Just take a look at Isaiah 50:10: “Who is among you who fears the LORD, who obeys the voice of His Servant, who walks in darkness and has no light? Let him trust in the name of the Lord and rely on his God.” This verse is a call to all to fear God, to obey His voice, trust His name, and rely on Him— just as Jesus the Messiah did. In the previous verses, the Messiah Himself is revealing His obedience, submission, and trust in God the Father, setting the example for all of us to follow. When we’re unsure, or we waver in our trust and reliance on God, we need only to re-fix our gaze toward the Light– our Savior– and recount His example to steer us back on track. 

Praise the Lord for His grace! It abounds, and He gives it to us even in our most wretched of times. At the same time, James does tell us explicitly that for those who are proud, opposition comes from the Lord (James 4:6). Grace is reserved for the humble. Humility is what He desires. Righteousness and justice are what are acceptable to Him, but a proud heart– that He calls sin (Proverbs 21:3-5).

Sister, He calls us the light of the world! May the shining of our light not flicker because it is surrounded by the dust particles of pride. 

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Release Pride By Focusing on Others

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God Declares Who He Is

While many with pride say who they are, who God is is greater. Amen?! In our pride, we can declare who we are. We can, like Babylon, say “there is no one else besides me.” Yet, how does that measure up with God? How do we measure up with God?

God tells us who He is and what He is like. Interestingly enough, God says about Himself the same words those with pride have stolen from Him: “I am the LORD, and there is no other” (Isaiah 45:18).

I say ‘interestingly enough’, but is it really interesting? It should come as no surprise to us. After all, since the Garden, the words of God have been twisted and taken out of context to bend to our philosophies, will, and made-up beliefs! 

Nevertheless, the words of the Almighty God are still true– He and He alone is the LORD. There truly is no other! When we meditate on this instead of what we think about ourselves, it should humble us to no end. There is no other besides God— not that inspiring leader over there. Not that dedicated ministry worker. Not that outstanding evangelist. Not us. 

NO ONE besides Him.

We learn how to rightly see God by paying attention to what He reveals to us about Himself. He wants us to know Him. Scripture tells us all we need to know (2 Peter 1:3) if we only stop to read it and truly consider the words!

Not only does God tell us there is no other besides Him, but in Isaiah 47:4, just a few short verses before the Babylonians stole His declaration, Isaiah calls the LORD God “our Redeemer”, “the LORD of hosts”, and “the Holy One of Israel”. Stop and think about those words for a bit. 

Since we’re already in the book of Isaiah, let’s meditate on a few more descriptions of the Lord that are given to us:

“This is what the LORD says, He who is the King of Israel and his Redeemer, the LORD of armies: ‘I am the first and I am the last, and there is no God besides Me. Who is like Me? Let him proclaim and declare it; and, let him confront Me beginning with My establishing of the ancient nation. Then let them declare to them the things that are coming and the events that are going to take place. Do not tremble and do not be afraid; have I not long since announced it to you and declared it? And you are My witnesses. Is there any God besides Me, or is there any other Rock? I know of none.’”

— Isaiah‬ ‭44‬:‭6‬-‭8‬ ‭NASB2020‬‬

“Listen to Me, Jacob, Israel whom I called; I am He, I am the first, I am also the last.”

— ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭48‬:‭12‬ ‭NASB2020

“This is what the LORD says, He who is your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: ‘I am the LORD your God, who teaches you to benefit, who leads you in the way you should go.’”

— ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭48‬:‭17‬ ‭NASB2020‬‬

“…And humanity will know that I, the LORD, am your Savior And your Redeemer, the Mighty One of Jacob.”

— ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭49‬:‭26‬ ‭NASB2020‬‬

“For I am the LORD your God, who stirs up the sea so that its waves roar (the Lord of armies is His name).”

— ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭51‬:‭15‬ ‭NASB2020‬‬

Choose Your Worship

Sister, the worship of self and the worship of God cannot co-exist. I encourage you to reflect and meditate on these verses (and others) that communicate the truth of God’s greatness. We are not the best, the greatest, or the ultimate, but the good news is— we don’t have to be because we have a God who is. We do not have to live up to the pressures of others looking to us or worshiping our ways because we have a God who can shoulder that and deserves all the worship. Freedom is found in knowing our place, which is abiding in Him, not sitting on His throne. May we release the desire and dangers of the worship of self and pride, and instead worship, honor, and give glory to the only One who truly deserves it. 

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Your Identity in Christ When the World Defines You by Success, Looks, or Roles

Guest Post by: Chrysanthemum Baloi

The Bible tells us that the devil is the god of the world (2 Corinthians 4:4), and the Lord tells us that we are the light of the world, meaning that without us, the world is pure darkness. As we are of the light because we are born (again) of the Spirit of God, what say can the world have on who we are and how we live? No say at all.

The world is void of what is spiritual. As believers, we have the mind of Christ; we have the Spirit who helps us discern all things. We should not behave or think as the natural man does. “But I, brothers, could not address you as spiritual people, but as people of the flesh, as infants in Christ.” (‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭3‬:‭1)‬. True spirituality is walking as empowered by the Holy Spirit to not be in the flesh. It is spiritual because it is to do with the Spirit leading us as children of God.

The world defines us by our success, looks, or roles because, “This is not the wisdom that comes down from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic.” (James‬ ‭3‬:‭15)‬. The wisdom of the world can’t help but be grounded in the physical world. But our identity in Christ is that we walk by faith because faith is our spiritual eyes that see the Invisible One.

Imitating Christ is Our Identity

As we are the light of the world because Christ is the Light of the world, we also share His love. God is love (1 John 4:8). The children of God are the only hope the world has of knowing love, of having light. We are defined by who Jesus is because it is His Spirit that leads us. It is the fruit of the Spirit that we practice and embody. Though we have unique human spirits, like a rose and a lily are both flowers, with the one mind of Christ, we are one, we are children of God the Father. Christ came so we could be like Him, so we could be sons and daughters unto the Most High God.

What does it mean for our sins to be paid for? It means when the Father sees you and me, He sees His perfect Son; He sees perfect children. How else would we have eternal life but unless we are perfect, for the Father is perfect (Matthew 5:48) and holy, for He is holy (1 Peter 1:15-16). And so because Jesus came to make our adoption unto the Heavenly Father legal, and has made us to be like Him, as the One who knew no sin became sin so that in Him we might become the righteousness of God (2 Corinthians 5:21), our identity is found in Jesus Christ, the Son of God.

John 1:12-13 teaches us that we were born not of blood nor of the will of the flesh, but of the will of God, because we received the light that is Christ Jesus. Now imagine going from this to making your identity as a human being to be such as a doctor, a lawyer, a receptionist, a billionaire, or an astronaut, etc. Nothing is a higher occupation than being a child of God. Nothing is more glorious, honourable, blessed, or more precious than our identity in Christ– being clothed and embodied in our eternal identity.

“But our citizenship is in heaven, and from it we await a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ, who will transform our lowly body to be like his glorious body, by the power that enables him even to subject all things to himself.”

— Philippians‬ ‭3‬:‭20‬-‭21

The One Mind of Christ the Lord

Who is Christ but the embodiment of the Holy Spirit of the Father? “And the Spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him, the Spirit of wisdom and understanding, the Spirit of counsel and might, the Spirit of knowledge and the fear of the Lord.” (Isaiah‬ ‭11:2)‬. “Who, then, are those who fear the Lord? He will instruct them in the ways they should choose.” (Psalms‬ ‭25:12)‬. “For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God.” (Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭14)‬. “For the creation waits with eager longing for the revealing of the sons of God.” (Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭19‬).

“So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.” (1 Corinthians‬ ‭10‬:‭31)‬. That is to say, it is not dishonourable to be a doctor or a receptionist, but it is not who you are as a being, it is what you do. If we let the world define us by clothing ourselves with its worldly wisdom, how can we have the mind of Christ? Because the wisdom of Christ is from the Spirit of God, it’s from above. How will creation recognise us as the children of God so it can have relief from the darkness of the fallen nature?

God is our heritage. And so what is our success, how do we look, and what is our role? “Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” - (Colossians‬ ‭3‬:‭2)‬. Our success is that we are heirs of the Father with Christ, for, we endure the world and overcome it through God’s Spirit (Romans 8:17). How we look is that we are Christlike, predestined to be in the Son’s image because He is the firstborn among many brothers and sisters (Romans 8:29). And what is our role? We are the light of the world and we are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus.

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Christian New Year Resolutions: A Biblical Perspective on Letting Go of the Old and Embracing the New

How do you typically approach the new year? Do you run at it with full force, excited for the change? Is it just another season, and you’re willing to see what comes of it? Or, does it draw no motivation from you whatsoever?

It’s the time of year when we hear all about resolutions, and as a believer, Christian New Year Resolutions certainly are a thing. Along these lines, I want to share something that’s been on my heart. Quite honestly, it’s something I’ve pondered in years past, but never really knew how to put it into words.

Here it is:

It’s a new year, and we’re told things are supposed to be new. Everything and all things are about being new, so now what are YOU going to do? But…is this way of thinking really correct or biblical?

When we step into the new year, we often hear:

• Forget the previous year and its struggles, upsets, and disappointments.

• Slogans like: New year new you. Out with the old and in with the new. What's coming is better than what's going. This is the beginning of anything you want. Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to get it right.

Forsake the old, and focus on the new, per se. Of course, there is validity to not continuing to wallow in past upsets. But remembering some aspects of the past is good, like what the Lord has done in the past (and what He may currently still be doing). Perhaps, He’s not ready to turn the page on the thing He’s been working on in you. 

Here’s what I mean— there are a couple of things the Lord has called to my attention over the last several months that He has me working through, studying in the Word, and praying about. Following the world’s ideology, it’d be very easy for me view this new year as an opportunity to make a list of resolutions to focus on this year, quickly forgetting that the Lord isn’t finished in these areas of my life yet. But, knowing that He isn’t controlled or swayed by the changing of our calendars, is this the right thing to do?

Setting Christian New Year Resolutions: Should We?

 Just like any normal resolution, a Christian New Year Resolution is made by setting goals to work toward some area of achievement or growth. The biggest difference is that there is typically more of a focus on relying on the Lord to help you in your pursuit, and the goals are centered more on spiritual disciplines—more Bible reading, more prayer time; growing closer in your walk with Him. Is there anything wrong with these things? Absolutely not! We should all desire further intimacy with the Lord, and spending more time with Him is how that comes to fruition. There is nothing wrong with recognizing that you need to re-route your habits a bit and focus on things that draw you closer to the Lord. 

The issues come, in my opinion, when we jump into making any decision to change up, re-route, or focus on something new without prayerfully considering what the Lord may be directing us to do in a particular season. As daughters of the King— those who call Jesus the Lord of our lives— first and foremost, we must be sure we are actually allowing Him to be Lord. This means He directs our steps; He calls the shots: He shows us what is next, and we wait on Him to do so. 

In other words, our “Christian” New Year Resolutions are just ordinary dreams and goals if the Lord isn’t in them.

And, in listening and waiting on Him, there is a call to not be so quick to jump to the next goal, plan, or purpose. Perhaps He isn’t done refining what He’s been doing in our lives over the last year, and it’s not time for new— it’s time for continuation. Before peering too far ahead, let’s be still and look back at how He’s already been working.

Remember What the Lord Has Done

Sister, it’s important to not let the past hold too much weight. We can dwell on the circumstances so much that we keep ourselves stuck in the past because we put the situations and emotions on syndication in our minds. This isn’t just a possibility with negative situations or hard times of the past— we do this with good circumstances too. The first typically brings sorrow, or perhaps guilt and shame, while the latter could bring an element of pride as we stay fixated on our “glory days”.

In remembering the past, I believe it’s much better allow our minds to shift to how God showed up in those situations: what He did externally and what He did internally in us.

<<Pause>> Grab your Bible and read Psalm 77 with me! (Yes, the whole chapter!)

“I will remember the works of the LORD; surely I will remember Your wonders of old. I will also meditate on all Your work, and talk of Your deeds.”

— Psalm 77:11-12

In my Bible, this Psalm is titled, “The Consoling Memory of God’s Redemptive Works.” The consoling memory…take a second to reflect on that description. Asaph, the writer of this psalm, reflected on a tough situation in the past— a time when he had to cry out to the Lord in the day of trouble (verse 2). At first, he remembers how, although he cried out to the Lord and he knew the Lord heard him, his soul was still not comforted. He felt unanswered prayers. He wondered if God would ever show His mercy, favor, and grace again (verses 7-9). Yet, he didn’t stop there. He still sought God, continually and diligently (verse 6).

There was a work going on inside of Asaph during this time of despair. Was there an element of that going on within us last year? Times of desperate calls to God, unanswered prayers, and questions God didn’t seem to address?

We have a choice in those times: to remain downcast and question God with a lack of faith, or allow His work to be done in our hearts to grow in our trust, belief, and faith in Him as we diligently seek Him. 

Asaph’s act of continuing to bend His ear and heart to the Lord brought him to a place where he was consoled and gained a renewed place of trust in the Lord as he remembered the works of the Lord— the wonders of old that God had done in the past. He determined to remember His deeds, how God’s hand moved; how He redeemed His people. He could rightly proclaim in verse 13, “Who is so great a God as our God?”

Of course, I cannot recall how God worked in your life last year or years past, but I hope you can. Think hard. It’s normally not “parting the Red Sea” big; it’s the smaller-scale changes where His hand moved, provided, or changed a heart or outcome. 

Remembering how the Lord worked helps us place deeper trust and confidence in Him because we’ve seen His hand move before, and when we remember those times, we believe all the more that He has the power and ability to move that way again. It’s two-fold— the more we remember how He’s worked in the past (external), the deeper our trust and faith take root (internal). This then leads us to a place where we simply trust Him because He is faithful and worthy to be trusted. Whether He comes through in the way we hope or not, we’ve already determined that He is all-powerful, completely able, and all-loving.

So, we should not miss how He’s worked internally, within us, and how He’s worked externally in our circumstances in the past.

Remember the Character of God in the New Year

We should remember not just the things He’s done, but also remember who He is.

True or False: It’s easy to be afraid, stumble, or hesitate in the present or when thinking of the future when we simply don’t remember the character of God.

“Remember the former things of old, for I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like Me.”

— Isaiah 46:9

While recalling what He’s already done in our lives can bring to light aspects of His character and teach us more about who He is, it’s important to remember that the character of God is not determined by how He has worked in our lives. God is not “so good” because He has grown us, changed us, or recently delivered us from a difficult time. God is good because He is good. It’s His nature. He contains the qualities of His character in and of Himself, not because His works somehow give Him these qualities.

For quick reference, here are a handful of verses that note certain aspects of God’s character. I encourage you to dive into these verses in their entirety and meditate on who He is. 

• Exodus 34:5-7: merciful, gracious, long-suffering, goodness, truth, forgiving, just

• Deuteronomy 7:9: faithful

• Psalm 103:13: compassionate

• Psalm 145:17: righteous, gracious

• Isaiah 40:26-29: strong, mighty, author & giver of power, everlasting, Creator, 

• Isaiah 43:11: Savior

• James 1:17: unchanging

• 1 John 4:8: love

What is God Doing in the New Year?

So it’s a new year, and our culture keeps saying: Set new goals! Make resolutions! Girl— it’s time for a new you! 

A fresh start is always a nice sentiment; a nice way to get yourself in the right mindset to push forward and try new things. However, if our focus is only on ourselves and what we’ve set out to accomplish this new year, how far will we get? What if what the Lord has for us this new year is not brand new, shiny, and a completely new way of life? What if He wants to continue to hone in on the sanctification He’s been steadily working in us, only to continue to polish what’s already there?

I think it’s a good thing to not be so quick to forsake the “that’s so last year” life because the Lord may still want to press into what has been happening within us the last 365 days. We must go at His pace. See His perspective as best as possible— not simply forget what He’s been doing just so we can look towards the “new”. Our “last year” season of refining may not be over yet.

“Do not remember the former things,
nor consider the things of old. 
Behold, I will do a new thing,
now it shall spring forth;
Shall you not know it?
I will even make a road in the wilderness
and rivers in the desert.”

— Isaiah 43:18-19

“Do not remember the former things”… wait, what? This could almost sound contradictory to what we just talked about! But follow me, sister. Here’s the point: we’re not to look to the past and dwell on the failures, defeats, and disappointments. This way of “considering the things of old” leads to self-condemnation, whereas we’re constantly thinking it’s all about us and how we’ve messed up. Considering the past is done rightly when our focus is on the Lord and all He’s done. 

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When God is Doing a New Thing

So, forget the wrong mindset, and look to the new things that God Himself is proposing to do. What are His goals, His resolutions, His plans, and His purposes for your new year? 

In Isaiah 43:19, God says, “I will do a new thing.” I. Him. Allow the Lord to show you the new thing, and then align your ideas, thoughts, and plans with His will. 

In the context of this verse, God wanted Isaiah to prophetically tell the people to look forward to what He would do when He’d pull them out of captivity in Babylon. They could either remain stuck in that defeat— or even longingly desire to stay in their life in Babylon— or they could look to the goodness God would bring for them in their exile. It was going to be God’s new thing, not something they had to muster up.

Maybe, for us in this season, the new is not exactly a new thing; just part of the continual work He’s still completing in us (which typically brings about “new” along the way). We can be content in this, too.

But, perhaps it is a new thing that the Lord has declared. Well then, sister: let’s not make an idol of the “new”. Many do this as they make resolutions (even Christian New Year resolutions), resulting in their whole life focus becoming revolved around the one new thing they have set out to do. No matter how good it looks, and even when it’s God-ordained, the “new” is not the main thing. God Himself is always the main thing. Our gaze should remain set on Him. 

Allowing the Lord to Direct our New Year

Let me know if you agree: many give up on their resolutions by February because they try to walk out their goals, dreams, and resolutions in the flesh. 

We say things like, “This is our year! This is our moment!” News flash— No, it’s God’s!

Allow me to pause for a moment and make it clear that I do not think there is anything wrong with setting goals, being ambitious, and working hard. Numerous things in our lives call us to do so; we cannot be a lazy sluggard and expect things in our lives to accomplish themselves. So, in no way am I saying that it is bad or futile to set goals or lay out step-by-step plans to get from point A to point B. What I am saying, however, is that in all of that, we need to first seek the Lord for our starting point this year, and always.

If we’re truly allowing the Lord to direct our steps in what He’s proposing for us right now, then we have no reason to fall for the lie that because we’re approaching February, we’re behind in our game plan for this year and we may as well give up. 

In elementary math, we learned about lines and segments. A line extends indefinitely, while a segment has a defined starting and ending point. When we believe this lie— that we’re already behind— we’ve taken our eyes off the Lord, and we’ve come to see our life, growth, and purpose as a segment. There’s a starting point and an end point (e.g., 2025 to 2026). Hence, our culture’s mindset that one year ends a certain chapter, and the new year starts the next. It’s too definitive. 

We really should view our lives like a line, which, by definition, extends infinitely in both directions with no endpoints. (Of course, I don’t mean we’ve existed forever). But God’s purposes and sanctification within us travel on a line, not a segment. It is ongoing, and He sets the points of change, not us. And the points of change do not denote the end of the line, it just set up little mile markers for us to look back on someday to remember the things of old, and how He worked in and around us. 

Bible Verses for the New Year

So sister, as we think about this new year and where we are now, it’s important to stay in step with the Spirit and move as He directs. Stepping into the new year is more about surrender and setting goals. This is the most important piece when it comes to the “practical” (day-to-day), and I believe this is something each of us just has to work out with the Lord.

I’ll leave you with some verses to use as a starting point. I encourage you to study them in your quiet time, reflect on them, and pray them. Then wait on the Lord and see what He has for you this season and in this new year! 

“Psalm 37:23: “The steps of a man are established by the Lord, and He delights in his way.”

Proverbs 3:5-7: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and turn away from evil.”

Proverbs 16:1-3: “The plans of the heart belong to a person, but the answer of the tongue is from the Lord. All the ways of a person are clean in his own sight, but the Lord examines the motives. Commit your works to the Lord, and your plans will be established.”

Proverbs 16:9: “The mind of a person plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps.”

Proverbs 20:24: “A man’s steps are ordained by the Lord; how then can a person understand his way?”

Galatians 5:16: “But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh.”

‭‭Galatians‬ ‭5‬:‭25‬-‭26‬: “If we live by the Spirit, let’s follow the Spirit as well. Let’s not become boastful, challenging one another, envying one another.”

Do you have Bible verses you’ve been meditating on in the new year? Tell me in the comments!

When You Feel Behind in Life: God’s Timing Is Still Perfect

Guest Post By: Alexia Jons

You weren’t supposed to feel this way.
By now, you thought you’d be further along — in your calling, your relationships, your purpose.

Instead, it feels like you’re sitting in the waiting room of your own life while everyone else gets called ahead of you. And honestly? You’re starting to wonder if God forgot your name.

This article isn’t about clichés or quick fixes.
It’s for the Christian woman who feels stuck between faith and frustration — still trusting God, but also quietly wondering:

“Why is it taking so long?”
“Did I miss something?”
“Is everyone moving forward… without me?”

Let’s talk about it — the loneliness of feeling behind, and the solid, immovable truth that God is not in a hurry — but He is never late.

The Silent Grief of Feeling “Behind”

Feeling behind isn’t always about envy.
Sometimes, it’s about grief — grieving the life you imagined you'd have by now.

• Maybe you expected to be married — but you're navigating singleness and silence.

• Maybe you thought you'd have children — but your arms are still waiting.

• Maybe you were once full of dreams — but delays and disappointments dimmed the light.

• Or maybe you’ve achieved “what you should” but still feel strangely… empty.
  

Here’s the truth nobody says out loud enough:

You can love God deeply and still feel disappointed with how life looks.
And you are not less faithful for wrestling with that tension.

God’s Timing: Personal, Not Generic

There’s a reason the Bible says “to everything there is a season” (Ecclesiastes 3:1). God doesn’t use cookie-cutter timelines. His timing is custom-tailored to each life — not to keep us waiting, but to make us whole.

Take Hannah, who prayed for a child for years while others around her gave birth easily. Her story in 1 Samuel reminds us that:

God's delays are often His preparations for something sacred.

Or think of Joseph — sold, imprisoned, and forgotten before rising to leadership. Every pause was part of a greater purpose: not just to promote him, but to shape him.

What if the season you're in isn't punishment or neglect…
…but the soil where roots are growing deep beneath the surface?

Four Lies We Believe When We Feel Behind

Let’s gently call out the subtle lies that sneak into our hearts — and replace them with truth:

Lie #1: “I’m falling behind.”
Truth: You're right on schedule for what God has called you to. Delay in the world’s eyes isn’t delay in His eyes. (Isaiah 55:8–9)

Lie #2: “Other people are doing it better.”
Truth: No one is ahead or behind in the Kingdom. We’re each running a race designed just for us. (Hebrews 12:1)

Lie #3: “God must be disappointed in me.”
Truth: God is not pacing heaven waiting for you to “catch up.” He delights in you now — not when you finally achieve something. (Zephaniah 3:17)

Lie #4: “My best days are behind me.”
Truth: If you’re still breathing, God’s not done writing. Your most beautiful chapters may be the ones ahead. (Philippians 1:6)

Trusting God’s Timing: What to Do When the Waiting Feels Heavy

Here are some practical ways to live well while waiting for what hasn’t yet come:

1. Name the disappointment, but don’t stay there.

God invites honesty. The Psalms are full of raw questions and open grief. Name what hurts — then bring it to Him.

2. Stop tracking others’ timelines like a scoreboard.

You’re not failing just because someone else is celebrating. Their gain is not your loss.

3. Celebrate the quiet fruit no one sees.

Patience. Growth. Surrender. These aren't small things — they are holy victories.

4. Practice joy today. Not when the prayer is answered — now.

Joy isn’t a reward for “arriving.” It’s a gift for the present. Start small: sunlight on your face, laughter with a friend, Scripture that lands deep.

A Sacred Reminder: Jesus Wasn’t in a Hurry Either

Jesus — the Savior of the world — lived 30 quiet years before His ministry began.
No platform. No big reveals. Just hidden faithfulness.

If the Son of God wasn’t rushed, why should we be?

Maybe what feels slow is actually sacred.
Maybe what looks like waiting is actually becoming.

Final Word: God Is Not Late — He’s Loving You in the Delay

When you feel behind in life, remember:
You’re not off course. You’re on holy ground.

The same God who saw you in your mother’s womb (Psalm 139:13–16) still sees you now — not just where you are, but where you’re going.

And His promise is this:

“I will fulfill the purpose I have for you.” — Psalm 138:8

Not maybe.
Not hopefully.
But will.

You are not behind.
You are held.
You are seen.
And you are exactly where God can reach you.

Even now.

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Alexia Jons writes about Christian faith and spiritual growth, with a special focus on encouraging women to trust God's timing and find their identity in His truth. She is passionate about helping individuals and families engage with Scripture in practical ways and deepen their walk with Christ — especially during seasons of waiting, discouragement, or change. When she’s not writing, Alexia enjoys photography, quiet moments with her Bible, and spending time with her family. You can follow her on Facebook.

Take Heed: A Call to Fulfill Your Christian Ministry

Recently, when reading through Colossians, a sentence jumped out at me that I’d never taken notice of before. I don’t know why I’d never considered it the previous times I’ve read through this powerful epistle written by Paul, other than perhaps it wasn’t something the Lord needed me to focus on at the time. But, this time, it struck me as very interesting:

“And say to Archippus, ‘Take heed to the ministry which you have received in the Lord, that you may fulfill it.’”

— Colossians 4:17 NKJV

Have you ever stopped to ponder this verse? If you’re like me, sometimes when I see the names of  people in Scripture who aren’t the “star players”, I do one of two things— stop and wonder who that person was; or, I’ll skim past the name and just look at what is being said. I have to admit, when reading this chapter in the past, I likely jumped over poor Archippus and finished up the letter in verse 17. 

However, this time the Lord tapped me on the shoulder and told me to stop. Contemplate. Consider. Search into the wisdom in this short sentence. 

After all, the Holy Spirit led Paul to include this piece of information; therefore— although it’s written directly to Archippus— it’s still in there for us to read today, so let’s not neglect it.

Ministry. Take heed. Fulfill. Received. These words on their own are significant enough in certain contexts, but when strung together in proper order, coming from the Lord Himself, through the method of Paul’s hand, they are worth taking the time to investigate.

Do I Have a Christian Ministry?

In this verse, the Greek word used for ministry is diakonía. It refers to the service of all who endeavor to carry out the cause of Christ among men, through the enabling of the Lord. Christian ministry is not reserved only for those with special titles of leadership within the church— we all have areas of ministry that the Lord has given us as His daughters, whether we’ve been “officially” appointed in a role or not. 

Motherhood is a ministry. Disciplining your children is a ministry. Caring for an aging parent is a ministry. Being a faithful witness in your workplace is a ministry. Being a friendly, helpful neighbor who shines the light of Christ to those on her block is indeed a ministry. 

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You see, the Lord has placed each of us in a specific point in time, for reasons we likely will never fully comprehend on this side of Heaven. 

“And He has made from one blood every nation of men to dwell on all the face of the earth, and has determined their preappointed times and the boundaries of their dwellings, so that they should seek the Lord, in the hope that they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one of us; for in Him we live and move and have our being, as also some of your own poets have said, ‘For we are also His offspring.’ ”

— Acts 17:26-28 NKJV

It was the right time for us to hear the gospel and believe, and it’s the right time to walk within the areas of ministry He’s given us. This is our God: He has a plan and has taken care of all of the details. What we need to do is be mindful to abide in Him and walk in the Spirit so we are not missing the ways He desires for us to fulfill our ministries in the every day. 

The Lord Gives You the Ministry

Back to our friend Archippus. If we take a closer look at verse 17 of Colossians 4, we’ll notice the phrase, “which you have received in the Lord”. So do we define our ministries, or does the Lord?

In the Greek, the phrase, “which you have received” means to receive something transmitted; to take to; not to reject; not to withhold obedience. So, if we’ve received something, then it wasn’t fashioned with our own hands; it wasn’t something of our own doing. It was given to us, transmitted to us, and we are to take it in obedience.

Archippus received his ministry “in the Lord”. So then, the ministry belonged to the Lord and He had the power and authority to transmit it to Archippus. Under the Lord’s authority, Archippus was to receive it– not reject it– and be obedient. Paul shares a similar thought in Acts 20:24:

“But none of these things move me; nor do I count my life dear to myself, so that I may finish my race with joy, and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God.”

— Acts 20:24 NKJV

Sister, we can come up with the best ideas, look at all the market research and determine the supply and demand; we can create the most colorful, engaging programs— yet, if the Lord isn’t in it, then really it’s our ministry, and not of the Lord. He places desires in our hearts according to His will, and He will soften and change our hearts to bend toward those desires if we allow Him. But in order for this to happen, we must determine to not be so set in our own ideas that we don’t hear what the Lord wants to do. Remember— He has appointed us to this particular time and place, and He knows how the story will unfold.

Let’s not be too busy writing our own story that we neglect to take part in His.

As hesitant as I was to start this blog several years ago, I finally stepped out of my own way and gave up trying to write up my own ministry plans by way of excuses. It didn’t matter that I “didn’t have time”, I “wasn’t sure what to write about”, or that I had “no idea how to operate a blog”. Surely, I thought, all of these “facts” about myself meant I should just create some other type of Christian ministry! However, THIS ministry was from the Lord, and He made that abundantly clear.

My role was to: (1) realize who was (and is) in charge; and (2) receive the ministry, knowing that He would give me the ability to fulfill it. I can now honestly say “Ditto!” to Paul’s statement: “And I thank Christ Jesus our Lord who has enabled me, because He counted me faithful, putting me into the ministry” (1 Timothy 1:12 NKJV).

How Do I Fulfill My Christian Ministry? 

Do you think the Lord wants to give you a ministry, only so you can sit back and watch it dissipate due to lack of obedience on your part? May it not be so! The things in this life that the Lord gives us need to be taken seriously. Although we often personalize things and think of it as “our” ministry, remember, really it is the Lord’s. His glory is on the line— not that we have the power to mess up so badly that we can depreciate His value— but we do have the opportunity to bear witness to His greatness, His character, His creativity and point others to Him, whether unbelievers for salvation; or, believers for further growth in Him, as we carry out the ministry He’s given us. Therefore, we shouldn’t be careless.

Archippus is told to “take heed”. I know we don’t use that phrase much these days, but quite honestly, in my opinion, it comes across with a serious tone translated this way.

To take heed, in the Greek, means to to look on, regard; to turn the thoughts or direct the mind to a thing; to consider; to weigh carefully. In other verses of Scripture, take heed is used in the fashion of a warning, as in 1 Corinthians 10:12: take heed, lest you fall. (Bonus: Read other “take heed” verses in their context: 1 Corinthians 3:10; 1 Corinthians 8:8-9; Galatians 5:14-15; 1 Timothy 4:16.) In other words, be careful to do a certain thing so the desired result comes to pass; otherwise, something else will happen instead. Perhaps the implied here is to take heed to carry out the ministry, otherwise your attention will go elsewhere and you won’t fulfill it.

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Fulfilling your ministry is done by walking in step with the Lord. It’s ok to have a vision for the “big picture”, but more importantly, we have to be mindful of what He is telling us in the moment. Obey Step A, and He will lead you to Step B. We don’t have to fulfill it all in one day— it’s a process, a season, or for some, even a lifetime. And let me also say that the Lord will lead you to different areas of ministry throughout your life— again, some for a season; some for a lifetime. Whatever the ministry is, it’s more about being obedient in the daily. He knows who needs to be reached today; who needs the gospel today; who needs discipled today; and which tasks need checked off today. 

Fulfilling your ministry doesn’t happen by constantly worrying about tomorrow. Just stay faithful to Him today. 

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Don’t Be Distracted in Ministry

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Take Heed: Don’t Get Distracted From Your Ministry

Fulfilling the ministry the Lord has given us means we cannot fulfill every other purpose and plan that we, and others, come up with for our lives.  Commentator Matthew Henry says of Colossians 4:17: 

“…to be careful and diligent of all parts of it, and persevere in it unto the end. They must attend to the main design of their ministry, without troubling themselves or the people with things foreign to it, or of less moment.”

I see this commentary as meaning: we shouldn’t trouble ourselves with things foreign to our ministry— things that can easily become a distraction or pull our attention elsewhere, no matter how good. And, let’s not be distracted by things that seem urgent or pressing now, if in fact they are not more important than our ministry.

We must know how to prioritize.

Aside from Archippus, Paul gives a similar “take heed” exhortation to Timothy in 2 Timothy 4:5. The word “fulfill” in this verse is a different Greek word than the one used in Colossians 4:17, but contains a similar thought. To Timothy, Paul used the Greek word, “plerophoreo”: to bear or bring full; to fulfill the ministry in every part; to carry through to the end; to accomplish.

“But you be watchful in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry. ”

— 2 Timothy 4:5 NKJV

Essentially, Paul says that in order to take heed to the ministry we have received in the Lord, we need to be watchful in all things— sober-minded, calm and collected in Spirit; not easily distracted by other things. We must be ready and willing to endure afflictions, not allowing them to discourage us or throw us off course. We must turn to the Lord for strength and perseverance, remembering that He is the one who gave us the ministry in the first place, and what He has begun in us He will always complete.

Sister, we have to remember that what we do for the Lord is not in vain; not wasted! It is easy (and natural) to become weary. Yet, the Lord calls us to be steady during those times. 1 Corinthians 15:58 tells us, “Therefore, my beloved brothers and sisters, be steadfast, immovable, always excelling in the work of the Lord [always doing your best and doing more than is needed], being continually aware that your labor [even to the point of exhaustion] in the Lord is not futile nor wasted [it is never without purpose]. -Amplified Bible

No matter how “insignificant” our work seems to be, our calling is great because it is from Him! In our weariness, our distractions, and hardships, we can lean on Him knowing that He will not leave us hanging. He will bring to pass the purposes He sovereignly desires. What a blessing that He wants us to be a part of it!

To Fulfill Your Christian Ministry: 1st Be Filled

I’m saving this point for the end because often we remember the last thing someone has said to us. This one is important; in fact, without this decision, we are fulfilling our ministry in vain.

In order to adequately fulfill our mission in Him, we must be filled with the knowledge of Him and His will. This is considered a “first things first” kind of thing.

Just as Paul prays for the Colossians in chapter 1:9-10, in order to be ready, willing, and able to truly take heed to the ministry the Lord gave us, we must be “filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding.” From there, the goal is that we would “walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God.” The knowledge of Him and His will for our lives comes first. Without knowing Him we cannot walk worthy, fully please Him, or be fruitful in the good works He has prepared for us, such as the ministry He has given us. 

Perhaps when we are spinning our wheels and feel we aren’t being productive in the things we’re doing for Him, it’s because we are lacking in our knowledge of Him; our intimacy with Him. We have pulled away and aren’t fully abiding.

Perhaps, it is a call from Him that in this time, this moment, we need to lean in and go deeper in the knowledge of Him.

Being only partially filled with the knowledge of Him, we can still walk— but not fully worthy; we can still be fruitful— but not in every good work; and we can still please Him— but only minimally and not fully.

Don’t confuse the partial results with the true results— the full results of a life filled with the knowledge of Him. A glass half full can aid in dehydration, but a full glass, one that is overflowing, even (such are the provisions He typically gives— overflowing and abounding!), can quench and fully satisfy.

Sister, I implore you (and me!) to seek Him diligently through the Word; through prayer; by simply abiding and being still.

To Fulfill Your Ministry: Take Heed to Yourself

Keep tracking with me, sister: when we are taking heed to our ministry and we are sure to stay close to the Lord— to stay in that intimate place; to stay in the Word— then we must also be diligent to follow what we’re teaching in our ministry. We can’t expect others to grow in their walk with the Lord if they are looking to us as an example, yet we are not doing so. (*Ouch*) As Paul says, “Lest when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified” (1 Corinthians 9:27). We must see ourselves as both the facilitator of the ministry, and a recipient. 

In other words, don’t just take heed to your ministry. Also take heed to yourself. 

We stay grounded in our faith. We put on the things of the Lord. We put to death the behaviors of the flesh. We walk by the Spirit. We stand fast in the Lord. We operate in love. 

“And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.”

— Colossians 4:17 NKJV

Sister, let’s step out of the way and truly let the Lord use us! Go where He wants to go. Do the work that He wants to do. In all these things, let’s remain thankful to the Lord because He is mindful of us and gives us the opportunity to take part in His plans and purposes. Our ministries will bring glory to Him as we do them in His name.

So I say to you: Take heed to the ministry you have received in the Lord, that you may fulfill it!

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5 Ways to Let Your Light Shine

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 Has anyone ever asked you if you were a Christian? I can recall the first time someone asked me. The question surprised me, but also blessed me at the same time. I won’t retell the full story here (you can find it in this post), but I will say that there is something very important about ensuring that your actions, words, and demeanor reflect our risen Savior. At the time of this person asking me, I don’t think that I was necessarily an amazing reflection of Christ (I was a fairly new believer at the time– I barely knew anything!); however, I suppose there was enough of His light shining through me during that interaction, that it was noticeable to this (seemingly) other believer.

Since that day, I’ve learned that there is an intentionality we must have in our walk with Christ. He tells us that we are the salt of the earth, and the light of the world (Matthew 5:13-14). And, as the light of the world, we are to let our light shine.

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You Are the Light of the World

Before we dive into how to let your light shine, let’s first pause and read the verses that contain the well-known truth spoken by Jesus, “you are the light of the world”:

“You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.”

— Matthew 5:14-16 NKJV

The amazing thing about this statement is that Jesus first said it about Himself! We find in various Scriptures, such as John 8:12, that Jesus refers to Himself as the Light of the world. Jesus came to bring light to a dark world; to bring hope and life, and free us from the power of sin and death. The kingdom of darkness cannot hold a candle to the kingdom of Light— the kingdom of the Beloved Son. 

So then, as we are now in Christ— those who follow Christ and have been made new in Him— we are the light. Because He is in us, we are now the light bearers with the responsibility of shining the light of Christ through our lives as we share the gospel and live as the hands and feet of Jesus. What a high call and responsibility; something that can only be done by His grace!

Ephesians 5:9 says, “For the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness, and truth.” As the light of the world, you and I are to represent goodness, righteousness, and truth. All of these things can only be found in the Lord, which is why it’s so imperative that we abide in Him. Our fellowship should be with the Lord, not with the darkness. The light shining through us will not only expose the darkness, but also bring into view those things which are acceptable to the Lord. As believers, we are challenged by the fact that we are automatically deemed as the light of the world; yet, as with anything in our Christian walk, it takes intentionality and wise decisions to carry out this high calling the Lord has placed on our lives. {There’s so much more that could be said! You can dive slightly deeper into this topic— moving from darkness into light— in this post.}

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Let Your Light Shine

Sister, I’ll say it again– this is why I truly appreciate companies and ministries like my friends at Good News T-Shirts. They are ready and willing to be a light in a dark world. Their owner, Sarah, said of their brand, that they are a family-owned business, “dedicated to spreading God's Word through Scripture-based apparel. Our mission is to create meaningful, conversation-starting t-shirts that encourage faith, discipleship, and sharing the Good News of Jesus.”

Do you hear the intentionality in that? It’s not just about creating t-shirts, bags, and other apparel with cute sayings to make a quick sale— the underworking of their mission is to let the light of Christ shine in all they do and create, while providing you with a tool that sparks conversation and gives you a practical opportunity to be a light in the world. 

Let’s not miss the grace of God in the fact that believers are the light of the world– the grace we see in that we were once darkness, but now are light in the Lord (Ephesians 5:8— go read it!). Take notice– the interesting thing about this verse is that it doesn’t say that we were once IN darkness— it says that we WERE darkness. Although the former thought is true as well, in that we fumbled around blindly, in darkness before Christ rescued us, it’s also eye-opening to realize that we, in and of ourselves, once were darkness. Inside of us was a void, and we were darkness. But now, in Christ, we are light! We can walk in His light, yes, but by the grace of God, we are light! 

After telling us that we are the light of the world in Matthew 5, Jesus goes on to say that a city set on a hill cannot be hidden. It was built there for a reason— to be exposed, noticeable, and to light up the surrounding landscape. That’s us! Jesus is building us on a proverbial hill, with the intent that we would remain on the hill, not go and hide under a basket. Good News T-Shirts, like so many of you, is choosing to remain steadfast and rooted on that hill, with a willing heart to bring the light of Christ to a dark world.

How to Let Your Light Shine

The purpose of being the light of the world is to bring the Truth to the world, so that God may be glorified (Matthew 5:16). This is why Jesus says that it’s no use for a lamp to be hidden under a basket. Under a basket, the light is muffled, easily overcome by darkness, and reaches no one. It has a weakened ability to bring glory to God. 

May we not hide under a basket, sister! Finally, let’s chat about how to let your light shine in some practical ways. Of course, this is in no way an exhaustive list— just a handful of things I believe line up with Scripture, that were on my heart to share, and can be practically done, in His strength!

(Hint: Don’t miss the promo code for a special offer from Good News T-Shirts, exclusively for my readers!).

#1: Abide in Christ

First and foremost, the only way we can properly give off the light we’ve been given is to abide in the Light Himself. In John 12, Jesus refers to Himself as light, telling His listeners that they had Him present with them as light, and they should believe in the light, lest they walk in darkness and it overcome them (verse 35). Believing in the light in turn would allow them to become sons of light (verse 36), and therefore they would no longer abide in darkness (verse 46).

In Christ, we are free from the darkness, but we also must decide to abide in the Light— in Christ. It’s a daily decision to rest in His ways, believe His promises, and allow Him to direct our steps. Abiding in Him allows us to draw from His strength and bear the fruit in our lives that pleases Him. Without Him, we can do nothing (John 15), so why try to be His witness to a dark world on our own? It will be of no avail. We must stay as closely connected as possible to the vine—the ultimate power source— so our light shines all the more brightly.

#2: Study the Word

When you think of a light source, such as a lamp, in order to operate as it was designed to do, it must first be connected to the ultimate power source, which gives it its power and ability to produce light. Within that connection, there has to be an understanding of what this ultimate source is doing for the light source as it is connected; there has to be a belief in the power and ability of the ultimate source to create and sustain the light in which the lamp is producing. And, there has to be a trust in the ultimate source that the electrical current being provided is safe, true, and exactly what the lamp needs. Otherwise, the lamp would have no desire to stay connected to the source.

I know I’m personifying a lamp, but just go with me for a second! 

This is all true for us too, sister, as we are the lights who need to trust in the Ultimate Light. We come to know, understand, and trust the Lord more by first abiding, but also by being faithful to study His Word. The Scriptures communicate the truth of who He is— His character, attributes, and promises. The degree to which our light shines brightly is greatly affected by how much we believe Him, and believe in Him. We must know unarguably and undoubtedly that He is faithful, honorable, and true, and that He will keep our path lit (Psalm 119:105) so that we can light the path for others straight back to Him.

Allow Him to speak to you in your quiet time, through prayer, and in the studying of His Word. You will miss so much of Him if you are skimping on your Bible time. Let’s be sisters who are faithful to read and live out His Word!

#3. Yield to the Spirit

In Christ, we have the Spirit in us, and He will guide us into all Truth, as His work is to glorify the Lord (John 16:13-14). Therefore, to effectively walk in the light and let our light shine, following the promptings of the Holy Spirit is the best way to ensure our actions are pleasing to the Father.

There are many times we may want to follow our flesh and avoid a situation, a particular conversation, or a specific person because we fear it may get awkward. We fear we may be rejected when we start speaking the Truth. But if it’s what the Lord wants us to do in that moment, then we should trust that He has a purpose and will give us the courage to speak and the words to say. 

It is not for our glory anyway, so let’s not worry about feeling awkward! I’m speaking to myself here, too. Remember, letting our light shine is for the glory of the Father, and the Spirit will make sure that happens if we walk in Him in those moments.

#4: Fellowship

Fellowship with other believers may seem a little out of place here, since we’re talking about being a city set on a hill and how to let your light shine— all of which make us immediately think of reaching a dark world. And indeed, this is what we’re talking about. However, let’s not forget that rubbing shoulders with other lights can aid in keeping you grounded in your faith via encouragement and exhortation. We need Christ, and we need each other! Our gifts serve others, perhaps giving them the inspiration and courage to step out and let their light shine a little brighter. And, they can do the same for you. Let’s not forsake fellowship and gathering with other believers (Hebrews 10:24-25).

#5: Don’t Hold Back

This one takes us back to my friends at Good News T-Shirts. Sister, when I see a person or a company that is unashamed of the gospel of Christ and willing to put themselves out there with the sole mission of bringing others to Him, it exhilarates me. This is what this brand stands for. From the first time we spoke, and in viewing their website, I could tell that they have a passion for simplicity— a simplicity that keeps the focus on Christ. There’s no need for extra fluff, gimmicks, or flashy ways to attract people. It’s Christ alone at the forefront of Good News T-Shirts, and He is enough. 

They are dedicated to sharing God’s Word through their apparel and are dedicated to spreading encouragement and sparking conversations. This is what I mean by “don’t hold back”. Some of us have no trouble opening our mouths and proclaiming the gospel, anytime, anywhere. Others of us tend to be more hesitant. That’s where the family behind this brand steps in, using their gifts to help build up other believers. Pop on a t-shirt or carry a tote bag donned with the pure Word of God—not catchy sayings— and you’ve got an instant conversation starter. The simplicity of the t-shirt designs doesn’t distract from the ability to make Scripture the focal point, which allows those around you to encounter the Word of God and allows you an opportunity to be a light in the world. Others may ask you what the verse you’re wearing means, or why you chose that Scripture, and you have an instant opportunity to let your light shine— to proclaim the good news of the gospel and the power of God.

Not only are we not holding back as we wear Scripture, but in the process of deciding to do so, we are likely walking through the other 4 points on which we just touched:

• When we’re abiding in Christ, we’re gaining a better understanding of His character and gaining the peace that only He gives, therefore making us more relaxed, open, and willing to do whatever He wants us to do to glorify His name.

• Studying the Word gives us the ability to understand and interpret these verses, which can bring clarity to the conversations we may have with those who ask.

• More trust in the Lord and His promises gives us the regular desire to yield to the Spirit, perhaps even in the moments when we’re getting dressed and He tells us to put on our Scripture-based t-shirt. As silly as that sounds, we can trust that He has a purpose and plan for it, and He knows who may need to see the verse on our shirt or bag that day. We can also yield to the Spirit in those moments when we know He’s calling us to speak up and share the gospel or the Truth of the Word.

• And, as we go deeper in fellowship with other believers, we’ll be more compelled to do the work of Christ because we have the encouragement from the rest of the body building us up. 

Be a City Set on a Hill!

Sister, I’d be remiss if I didn’t share what Good News T-Shirts is doing for YOU, as a A Woman Created On Purpose reader. Because of their commitment to help us put forth the Word of God everywhere we go, they have created a CUSTOM “A Woman Created on Purpose” Tote Bag! This bag shares Ephesians 2:10– one of my favorite verses in the Bible, and the verse behind the name of this blog. You and I were created on purpose, and we can be reminded of that daily (and remind others) as we carry this tote. 

While we’re talking about it, let me just tell you about the quality of this tote, sister! When I got my tote out of the packaging, I immediately could feel the sturdiness of the heavy canvas; the size is perfect for not only carrying my thick study Bible, but also my notebook, pens, phone, and small clutch purse (all my church-going essentials!), with no fear of the bottom falling out or the handles being ripped. I’ve been looking for a larger (but not awkwardly large), quality tote bag like this for years! It’s 100% cotton and can even be washed, as needed. 

Needless to say, I’m loving my bag, and I believe you will too!! That’s why, in partnership with Good News T-Shirts, all readers can snag this one-of-a-kind, custom bag for 10% off using the code AWCOP10. 

Use the promo code AWCOP10 here: GET 10% OFF MY CUSTOM TOTE BAG!

Click the link above and grab your custom bag, girl! Please join me in supporting this family-owned company that has stepped up to be a city set on a hill, and is not afraid to be a light of the world. 

May we all shine brightly in His name and for His glory!