Putting God First

What is the first thing you think about upon waking in the morning? What do you spend the bulk of your day pondering? What is the number one priority on your to-do list most days?

All of the personal reflection questions above beg us to slow down and consider our ways. We’d all likely agree that it is good to stop and reflect on these questions on a regular basis; however, we’d also likely agree that we’re normally too busy to do so. We wake up and hit the ground running, ready to slay another day and get the job done. We go about our business with no time to waste. And sister, herein lies the problem— we go about our business, ready to take part in our commitments and complete what we have determined to do that day. The problem isn’t that what we’re committed to or partaking in isn’t important, or oftentimes necessary; the problem is that sometimes our priorities don’t match the Lord’s priorities for our lives. 

For this same reason, God called a prophet named Haggai to bring a message to His people. After 70 years of exile in Babylon, they had returned and were able to begin rebuilding the temple. The foundation was laid, sparking joy and great praise to the Lord (Ezra 3:10-13). Yet, after facing opposition from adversaries, rebuilding of the temple ceased and there was no more building for 16 years. 

Here’s where the prophet Haggai steps on the scene, calling out his fellow Jews for failing to make God a priority. God pointed out to them, using the mouth of Haggai, that their hearts were in a place where they didn’t believe it was time to rebuild the temple. They were content to live in the houses they’d taken the time to labor over, but laboring over God’s temple was still a thing to be put off. Whether consciously or subconsciously, they were not putting God first.

Before we move on, I encourage you to pull out your Bible and read Haggai (it’s only 2 chapters!) for full context.

Consider Your Ways

Opposition causes stress, discomfort, fear, and can be debilitating. Having likely experienced each of these things when dealing with their adversaries while initially building the temple, it’s understandable why they would want to cease. Yet, in the passage of time, God’s people had gotten comfortable. They were comfortable pursuing what they desired, while what God had called them to do lay in ruins.

Before we get too judgmental, I’m sure we can each think of a time or two when we’ve done the same. We heard clearly from the Lord, and perhaps even began to pursue the next thing He called us to; however, something tripped us up. Or, perhaps we just got a little weary, and we “needed a break”. A short break from obedience often turns to hesitancy to start again; a distraction here, a distraction there; or choosing to focus on something a little more “exciting”. But sister, a short break from obedience is summed up in one word: disobedience.

In those times, like the returned exiles, we need to wake up and consider our ways! That was God’s call to His people (Haggai 1:5; 7). This phrase means to put your heart on your path— the path that is God’s path. The temple represented God’s immediate and intimate presence among them, and not completing the temple meant that their proper worship to Him was put on hold. Instead of seeking His face— His presence— other things seemed more important. 

What makes us value other aspects of our life more, or view things as more urgent than the Lord’s direction? Simply put, our priorities aren’t right. We think it’s time to “dwell in paneled houses” (verse 4) but the time is passing by and we need to redeem it well by doing what the Lord wants us to do. When we don’t redeem the time well we will constantly say, just as the Jews in Haggai’s day, “the time has not come that the LORD’s house should be built,” (verse 2). We will stay busy building other things, but whatever else we are building, unless the Lord builds it, we labor in vain (Psalm 127:1). Making God a priority means we build our life in Him, not focus on other things. It has to start with us prioritizing Him, so that it’s truly Him who is working in us to build what He’s called us to. 

When We’re Not Putting God First

Putting God first starts internally, with a decision. From there we must determine to be immovable in that decision— no distractions or discouragements strong enough to pull us in a different direction. Easier said than done, would you agree?

No, it isn’t easy, sister. But praise the Lord we have the Spirit to guide us, remind us of Scripture, and continually direct us back to the things of the Lord. The Jews in Haggai’s day didn’t have Him living within them. They weren’t born again. Is that an excuse for their delayed obedience? Hardly. They knew what they were to do! What it is is more of a conviction for us— the fact that we do have the Holy Spirit means we have much less of any excuse to put off the things of the Lord!

Not putting God first happens easily when we aren’t yielding to the direction He’s giving us. We begin to listen to our own thoughts, be influenced by the world and the direction culture is heading, or follow the advice of others. Like the Jews, we do not consider our ways. Is this the track on which we want our life? Haggai 1:6 shows the results of building on our own in vain:

You have sown much, and bring in little;

You eat, but do not have enough;

You drink, but you are not filled with drink;

You clothe yourselves, but no one is warm;

And he who earns wages,

Earns wages to put into a bag with holes.

The LORD God basically told them to consider their ways and take a look at the outcome— they were doing lots of work, yet with no results to show for it, or no profitable impact in their lives. They had food, drink, clothing and money— but not enough. They were essentially toiling and spinning their wheels.

When our priorities are off and we aren’t focused on our abundant God, we lack in all areas of life. We may have all the right things and the necessities in life to be grateful for, yet these things can almost become a point of stress for us because we don’t quite have enough. We can be simultaneously surviving and lacking. 

If we’re noticing this pattern in our lives, it may help to consider our ways and determine if our hearts are truly set on Him. As His children, we cannot be so set on building up our personal economy that we neglect building the things of the Lord. Worldly considerations cannot be placed ahead of our spiritual health and our relationship with Him.

Putting God First is About Our Hearts

As I was reading through Haggai, I came across a commentary that mentioned something to the effect of this: the returned exiles’ failure to complete a suitable house of worship for the LORD was holding them back from the prosperity they sought. At that moment, I felt the Lord speak to my heart in the same regard, in that the similar struggles we have at times in my own family— feeling like we are constantly working, producing, and serving, but having little or nothing to show for it— do we have the same problem as the Jews did? Are we focused on other priorities, building things that God would not have us build, or building without Him?

This isn’t to say that seeking God first means that we’ll always be living in prosperity and abundance— that certainly is not true either. But it’s not about the end result of gaining abundance and wealth; it’s about our hearts.

God loves His children, and He desires for us to rely on Him because that is truly the only way we will make it in this life. He knows our hearts, thoughts, and the intentions behind our actions, and will draw us to Him in various ways. When we look at Haggai 1:7-11, we see that God was obviously very aware of His people’s intentions and their attempts to build their own lives, but He didn’t just let them continue to go astray. The lack they experienced, the frustration of working hard to produce, yet having little— that was God’s doing. Their harvest amounted to little and what little they did bring home, He blew away; He held back the heavens, called for a drought, and withheld the earth from producing favorably for them. 

Why? Because He was mean? No! Because of His great love for them. God wanted them to see the error of their ways so they would know that building anything without Him is futile, so that they’d instead learn to build what He had called them to build first. God wanted to be glorified in their work and subsequent worship at the temple (verse 8) but that couldn’t happen because their lavish houses only glorified themselves. 

This begs a question for us, sister, as we in Christ are now temples of God.

“Do you not know that you are the temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you?”

— ‭‭I Corinthians‬ ‭3‬:‭16‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

That question being: Have we neglected the building of the temple (us) to instead build what we want and desire? Who we are in Him is to be honoring to Him. We should be building that first by seeking first the kingdom of God (Matthew 6:33), so all other things can be added to us, not the other way around. Perhaps you are in a place in your life where you have been making God your first priority. You’re actively allowing Him to build you up, and you’re solely focused on His will. Praise the Lord! But, if you’re like me, and you’re seeing some areas where you are toiling and producing little, or you feel the tug of not necessarily being 100% focused on what He has for you right now, I ask you to join me in considering your ways! It’s time for us to be more concerned with pleasing the Lord than pleasing ourselves and our own comfortability.

The Joy Found in Obedience and Putting God First

What a joy when we come to the place where our hearts turn in the right direction and we put God first. When God is speaking to us; prompting us to move in a certain direction; or giving us explicit directions, if we truly have the fear of the Lord we will follow. This is in fact what we see as we move along in our text, in Haggai 1:12. Beginning with the leadership, and with the people following suit, the Israelites, “obeyed the voice of the LORD their God…and the people feared the presence of the LORD.” They took a step back and considered their ways. They were ready to care what God thought and if He approved of their behavior. Ultimately, they were ready to obey His Word.

“And now, Israel, what does the Lord your God require of you, but to fear the Lord your God, to walk in all His ways and to love Him, to serve the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul…”

— ‭‭Deuteronomy‬ ‭10‬:‭12‬ ‭NKJV

They truly began to fear the LORD, walk in His ways, love Him, and serve Him with all their hearts and souls. May this be where we land as well. Despite the cause of our struggles— whether they be self-imposed, due to disobedience, or spiritual in nature— when we turn our hearts back to the Lord and make the decision to be obedient, we can know that the Lord is giving us the strength to do what He’s called us to do, and He is there with us in the process. We have nothing to fear (Haggai 1:13; 2:4-5). Just like in His interaction with His people in Haggai’s day– despite our lost priorities, distractions, or focusing on other things, when we truly “about face” and turn back to the Lord’s ways, He is right there, still willing to be with us. 

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We Turn Back and God Stirs Up

True, God is with us, but He also steps in and works. He isn’t waiting idly like a bystander just watching us strive in the work He’s called us to. It’s His work, and we need His strength! And this is exactly what He provides for us. 

Not only was God with His people as they turned back to Him, ready to build the temple, but He went the extra measure and stirred up the spirit of the leaders and all the people. It wasn’t about self-motivation or waiting for an inspirational talk of some sort. Haggai’s message from the Lord brought conviction, caused them to turn back, and God infused them with the zeal they needed to take on His task. But, He couldn’t do this until their hearts were in the right place and they properly feared and regarded God. He was not going to force them to rebuild the temple.

The phrase “stirred up” in Haggai 1:14 means to arouse or awaken. God literally woke up the part of His people that was sleep or dull! He lit a fire and gave them the strength to do His will. As I said, this stirring wasn’t just a feel-good experience– it caused them to take action.

Are we looking for that next self-help book, motivational speaker, or inspiring TED Talk to ignite us into action? Don’t misunderstand– books are helpful and talented speakers can be great to listen to from time to time. However, the true zeal we need to pursue what God is calling us to do is found in Him! It’s the good work that He has prepared for us and that He has called us to do; therefore, He knows what strength, gumption, and spark we need to not only get started, but also to accomplish it. We look to Him.

Putting God First and Keeping God First

How do we put God first? Putting God first isn’t necessarily about a checklist, but allow me to provide for you a quick summary of what was just shared. If you’re wondering how to put God first, please don’t view this as an extensive list or directive– these are simply the things the Lord pointed out to me as I was studying the Scripture.

1. We consider our ways. We put our hearts on the path that is God’s path.

2. We remove our focus from other things, and decide to build our life in Him.

3. Yield to the direction of the Holy Spirit.

4. Seek first the kingdom of God.

5. Fear the Lord and choose obedience.

6. Continue to look to God and rely on His strength.

But then what?

There’s danger in thinking that what we’ve now started with Him we somehow then continue to carry it out in our strength and by our own means (Galatians 3:3). The truth of the matter is that sometimes the things the Lord calls us to are big. They seem daunting. They get hard. No doubt, rebuilding God’s temple would be any different!

As we look at Haggai 2, we notice the chapter begins with the LORD bringing encouragement to the leaders and the people. 

“‘Who is left among you who saw this temple in its former glory? And how do you see it now? In comparison with it, is this not in your eyes as nothing? Yet now be strong, Zerubbabel,’ says the Lord; ‘and be strong, Joshua, son of Jehozadak, the high priest; and be strong, all you people of the land,’ says the Lord, ‘and work; for I am with you,’ says the Lord of hosts.  ‘According to the word that I covenanted with you when you came out of Egypt, so My Spirit remains among you; do not fear!’ ”

— Haggai 2:3-5

At this point, they’d been working for the last month and perhaps they needed an encouraging word. So, God reminded them that even though it looked like ruins and a mess (compared to the original temple), it would eventually be restored to glory even greater than before. Their work would not be in vain.

And neither will ours.

The outcome and the final glory would be up to God, and belonged to God. But like the returned exiles, we play a part in the work– getting our hands dirty, laying the pieces, and building what He calls us to. Yet at the end of the day, it’s God’s construction, just as it was God’s temple, and He has plans and purposes for it.

Sister, will you consider your ways and make God a priority– not just today, but tomorrow, next week, next year? We are blessed to not only have the Spirit among us, but also in us as believers. That zeal, that fire, that strength and energy are constants in our lives if we don’t stifle them. Let it not be so. It’s not time for us to get comfy in our own four walls, for He is ready with the plans for what He’s calling us to build (in Him) next, for His glory.

Are we ready?

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How to Be Content: The Flaws in Our Selfish Expectations

Guest Post By: Tanya Hettler

Have you ever felt personally offended when you’re stuck in traffic? Or annoyed when you end up in the slow checkout line at the store? Do you find your attitude souring when you call customer service?

These everyday frustrations reveal how easily we slip into the mindset that the world should cater to our expectations. We forget how to be content.

Self-absorption comes naturally to us. We view life almost entirely from our own perspective and rarely pause to consider what others may be experiencing. Yet six of the Ten Commandments focus on how we treat other people. Clearly, our interactions with others matter deeply to God.

I once heard a speaker say that traffic is God’s way of reminding us that we are not the center of the universe. That simple statement has stayed with me.

Impatience

Years ago, I stood in a grocery line with a very slow cashier. The person with me became so impatient that he kicked the conveyor belt, knocking off a large metal panel with a loud clang. It is funny now—but at the time it was deeply embarrassing.

It’s easy to become so focused on our inconvenience that we lose sight of everyone else involved.

The same thing happens when we call customer service. We forget that the representative on the other end of the phone is a real person—and likely not personally responsible for our problem.

When I first began driving, I used to think it was incredibly inconsiderate that traffic would dare to make me late. It took many traffic jams before I realized something obvious: I was not the center of the universe. Everyone else stuck in that traffic was just as frustrated as I was.

Self-Denial

It’s easy to assume that whatever we are doing at the moment is the most important thing in the world. But Jesus challenges that mindset. In Luke 9:23–25 He says:

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will save it.”

— Luke 9:23–25

Jesus expresses the same truth in Matthew 6:33:

“Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

— Matthew 6:33

God’s kingdom is more important than our convenience. His purposes matter more than our schedules. We are called to reflect Christ to the world—yet how can we do that when we are irritated and demanding our own way?

Contentment in the Bible

Paul reminds us in 1 Timothy 6:6 that “godliness with contentment is great gain.” In Philippians 4:11–13, he writes:

“I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances… I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation… I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”

— Philippians 4:11–13

And this comes from the Apostle Paul—a man who suffered tremendously for the sake of Christ (see 2 Corinthians 11:23–27 for a sobering list of his trials).

Few of us can say we have endured more than Paul, yet even from prison, he urges believers to “Rejoice in the Lord always” (Philippians 4:4). His contentment was not rooted in comfort, but in Christ.

Be Quiet and Still

Scripture repeatedly encourages quietness and stillness instead of frantic striving. Our frustration in inconvenient moments often exposes a failure to trust God’s sovereignty and timing.

Psalm 46:10 reminds us, “Be still, and know that I am God.”

In 1 Thessalonians 4:11–12, Paul urges believers to “Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life… so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders.” A quiet life is not necessarily silent; it is steady, peaceful, and free from unnecessary drama. It reflects trust. It reflects a heart that has learned how to be content in the stillness of the presence of the Lord.

Anger, on the other hand, is incompatible with this posture. As 1 Corinthians 13:5 tells us, love is “not easily angered.”

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A Servant Heart

In Matthew 20:28, when two disciples seek positions of honor, Jesus redirects their ambition. He reminds them that greatness in His kingdom looks very different:

“The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.”

If Christ Himself came to serve, how can we insist on being served?

Paul echoes this in 1 Corinthians 10:24: “No one should seek their own good, but the good of others.” The Christian life shifts our focus from personal rights and convenience to the welfare of others.

We Owe Everything to God

Ultimately, we must remember that God created us and sustains us daily. Colossians 1:17 tells us that Jesus is “before all things, and in Him all things hold together.”

Hebrews 1:3 describes the Son as “the radiance of God’s glory… sustaining all things by His powerful word.”

Even our next breath is a gift. In view of God’s mercy, Romans 12:1 calls us to offer our bodies as living sacrifices—holy and pleasing to Him.

Our time is not truly ours. Our schedules are not ultimately ours. Our lives belong to Him.

Let Go of Expectations and Be Content in Him

In the end, our irritation in traffic, impatience in line, and frustration on the phone often reveal something deeper than inconvenience—they reveal our expectation that life should revolve around us.

But Scripture calls us to something better. Jesus calls us to deny ourselves, seek first His kingdom, live quietly, love patiently, and serve willingly.

When we remember that we owe everything to Him—our time, our plans, even our next breath—our perspective begins to change. The world is not here to serve us; we are here to reflect Christ.

Instead of demanding our rights, we can choose stillness over striving, patience over anger, and service over self-importance. And in those ordinary, inconvenient moments, we are given daily opportunities to display humility, trust, and the quiet strength of a life centered not on self, but on God.

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Dr. Tanya Hettler has a Ph.D. in psychology and worked as a Christian counselor and then as a researcher and writer for a conservative think tank. I have had a blog website called Deep Thoughts with Dr. Tanya for more than 10 years which you can see at www.tanyathedoc.com.

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Christian New Year Resolutions: A Biblical Perspective on Letting Go of the Old and Embracing the New

How do you typically approach the new year? Do you run at it with full force, excited for the change? Is it just another season, and you’re willing to see what comes of it? Or, does it draw no motivation from you whatsoever?

It’s the time of year when we hear all about resolutions, and as a believer, Christian New Year Resolutions certainly are a thing. Along these lines, I want to share something that’s been on my heart. Quite honestly, it’s something I’ve pondered in years past, but never really knew how to put it into words.

Here it is:

It’s a new year, and we’re told things are supposed to be new. Everything and all things are about being new, so now what are YOU going to do? But…is this way of thinking really correct or biblical?

When we step into the new year, we often hear:

• Forget the previous year and its struggles, upsets, and disappointments.

• Slogans like: New year new you. Out with the old and in with the new. What's coming is better than what's going. This is the beginning of anything you want. Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to get it right.

Forsake the old, and focus on the new, per se. Of course, there is validity to not continuing to wallow in past upsets. But remembering some aspects of the past is good, like what the Lord has done in the past (and what He may currently still be doing). Perhaps, He’s not ready to turn the page on the thing He’s been working on in you. 

Here’s what I mean— there are a couple of things the Lord has called to my attention over the last several months that He has me working through, studying in the Word, and praying about. Following the world’s ideology, it’d be very easy for me view this new year as an opportunity to make a list of resolutions to focus on this year, quickly forgetting that the Lord isn’t finished in these areas of my life yet. But, knowing that He isn’t controlled or swayed by the changing of our calendars, is this the right thing to do?

Setting Christian New Year Resolutions: Should We?

 Just like any normal resolution, a Christian New Year Resolution is made by setting goals to work toward some area of achievement or growth. The biggest difference is that there is typically more of a focus on relying on the Lord to help you in your pursuit, and the goals are centered more on spiritual disciplines—more Bible reading, more prayer time; growing closer in your walk with Him. Is there anything wrong with these things? Absolutely not! We should all desire further intimacy with the Lord, and spending more time with Him is how that comes to fruition. There is nothing wrong with recognizing that you need to re-route your habits a bit and focus on things that draw you closer to the Lord. 

The issues come, in my opinion, when we jump into making any decision to change up, re-route, or focus on something new without prayerfully considering what the Lord may be directing us to do in a particular season. As daughters of the King— those who call Jesus the Lord of our lives— first and foremost, we must be sure we are actually allowing Him to be Lord. This means He directs our steps; He calls the shots: He shows us what is next, and we wait on Him to do so. 

In other words, our “Christian” New Year Resolutions are just ordinary dreams and goals if the Lord isn’t in them.

And, in listening and waiting on Him, there is a call to not be so quick to jump to the next goal, plan, or purpose. Perhaps He isn’t done refining what He’s been doing in our lives over the last year, and it’s not time for new— it’s time for continuation. Before peering too far ahead, let’s be still and look back at how He’s already been working.

Remember What the Lord Has Done

Sister, it’s important to not let the past hold too much weight. We can dwell on the circumstances so much that we keep ourselves stuck in the past because we put the situations and emotions on syndication in our minds. This isn’t just a possibility with negative situations or hard times of the past— we do this with good circumstances too. The first typically brings sorrow, or perhaps guilt and shame, while the latter could bring an element of pride as we stay fixated on our “glory days”.

In remembering the past, I believe it’s much better allow our minds to shift to how God showed up in those situations: what He did externally and what He did internally in us.

<<Pause>> Grab your Bible and read Psalm 77 with me! (Yes, the whole chapter!)

“I will remember the works of the LORD; surely I will remember Your wonders of old. I will also meditate on all Your work, and talk of Your deeds.”

— Psalm 77:11-12

In my Bible, this Psalm is titled, “The Consoling Memory of God’s Redemptive Works.” The consoling memory…take a second to reflect on that description. Asaph, the writer of this psalm, reflected on a tough situation in the past— a time when he had to cry out to the Lord in the day of trouble (verse 2). At first, he remembers how, although he cried out to the Lord and he knew the Lord heard him, his soul was still not comforted. He felt unanswered prayers. He wondered if God would ever show His mercy, favor, and grace again (verses 7-9). Yet, he didn’t stop there. He still sought God, continually and diligently (verse 6).

There was a work going on inside of Asaph during this time of despair. Was there an element of that going on within us last year? Times of desperate calls to God, unanswered prayers, and questions God didn’t seem to address?

We have a choice in those times: to remain downcast and question God with a lack of faith, or allow His work to be done in our hearts to grow in our trust, belief, and faith in Him as we diligently seek Him. 

Asaph’s act of continuing to bend His ear and heart to the Lord brought him to a place where he was consoled and gained a renewed place of trust in the Lord as he remembered the works of the Lord— the wonders of old that God had done in the past. He determined to remember His deeds, how God’s hand moved; how He redeemed His people. He could rightly proclaim in verse 13, “Who is so great a God as our God?”

Of course, I cannot recall how God worked in your life last year or years past, but I hope you can. Think hard. It’s normally not “parting the Red Sea” big; it’s the smaller-scale changes where His hand moved, provided, or changed a heart or outcome. 

Remembering how the Lord worked helps us place deeper trust and confidence in Him because we’ve seen His hand move before, and when we remember those times, we believe all the more that He has the power and ability to move that way again. It’s two-fold— the more we remember how He’s worked in the past (external), the deeper our trust and faith take root (internal). This then leads us to a place where we simply trust Him because He is faithful and worthy to be trusted. Whether He comes through in the way we hope or not, we’ve already determined that He is all-powerful, completely able, and all-loving.

So, we should not miss how He’s worked internally, within us, and how He’s worked externally in our circumstances in the past.

Remember the Character of God in the New Year

We should remember not just the things He’s done, but also remember who He is.

True or False: It’s easy to be afraid, stumble, or hesitate in the present or when thinking of the future when we simply don’t remember the character of God.

“Remember the former things of old, for I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like Me.”

— Isaiah 46:9

While recalling what He’s already done in our lives can bring to light aspects of His character and teach us more about who He is, it’s important to remember that the character of God is not determined by how He has worked in our lives. God is not “so good” because He has grown us, changed us, or recently delivered us from a difficult time. God is good because He is good. It’s His nature. He contains the qualities of His character in and of Himself, not because His works somehow give Him these qualities.

For quick reference, here are a handful of verses that note certain aspects of God’s character. I encourage you to dive into these verses in their entirety and meditate on who He is. 

• Exodus 34:5-7: merciful, gracious, long-suffering, goodness, truth, forgiving, just

• Deuteronomy 7:9: faithful

• Psalm 103:13: compassionate

• Psalm 145:17: righteous, gracious

• Isaiah 40:26-29: strong, mighty, author & giver of power, everlasting, Creator, 

• Isaiah 43:11: Savior

• James 1:17: unchanging

• 1 John 4:8: love

What is God Doing in the New Year?

So it’s a new year, and our culture keeps saying: Set new goals! Make resolutions! Girl— it’s time for a new you! 

A fresh start is always a nice sentiment; a nice way to get yourself in the right mindset to push forward and try new things. However, if our focus is only on ourselves and what we’ve set out to accomplish this new year, how far will we get? What if what the Lord has for us this new year is not brand new, shiny, and a completely new way of life? What if He wants to continue to hone in on the sanctification He’s been steadily working in us, only to continue to polish what’s already there?

I think it’s a good thing to not be so quick to forsake the “that’s so last year” life because the Lord may still want to press into what has been happening within us the last 365 days. We must go at His pace. See His perspective as best as possible— not simply forget what He’s been doing just so we can look towards the “new”. Our “last year” season of refining may not be over yet.

“Do not remember the former things,
nor consider the things of old. 
Behold, I will do a new thing,
now it shall spring forth;
Shall you not know it?
I will even make a road in the wilderness
and rivers in the desert.”

— Isaiah 43:18-19

“Do not remember the former things”… wait, what? This could almost sound contradictory to what we just talked about! But follow me, sister. Here’s the point: we’re not to look to the past and dwell on the failures, defeats, and disappointments. This way of “considering the things of old” leads to self-condemnation, whereas we’re constantly thinking it’s all about us and how we’ve messed up. Considering the past is done rightly when our focus is on the Lord and all He’s done. 

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When God is Doing a New Thing

So, forget the wrong mindset, and look to the new things that God Himself is proposing to do. What are His goals, His resolutions, His plans, and His purposes for your new year? 

In Isaiah 43:19, God says, “I will do a new thing.” I. Him. Allow the Lord to show you the new thing, and then align your ideas, thoughts, and plans with His will. 

In the context of this verse, God wanted Isaiah to prophetically tell the people to look forward to what He would do when He’d pull them out of captivity in Babylon. They could either remain stuck in that defeat— or even longingly desire to stay in their life in Babylon— or they could look to the goodness God would bring for them in their exile. It was going to be God’s new thing, not something they had to muster up.

Maybe, for us in this season, the new is not exactly a new thing; just part of the continual work He’s still completing in us (which typically brings about “new” along the way). We can be content in this, too.

But, perhaps it is a new thing that the Lord has declared. Well then, sister: let’s not make an idol of the “new”. Many do this as they make resolutions (even Christian New Year resolutions), resulting in their whole life focus becoming revolved around the one new thing they have set out to do. No matter how good it looks, and even when it’s God-ordained, the “new” is not the main thing. God Himself is always the main thing. Our gaze should remain set on Him. 

Allowing the Lord to Direct our New Year

Let me know if you agree: many give up on their resolutions by February because they try to walk out their goals, dreams, and resolutions in the flesh. 

We say things like, “This is our year! This is our moment!” News flash— No, it’s God’s!

Allow me to pause for a moment and make it clear that I do not think there is anything wrong with setting goals, being ambitious, and working hard. Numerous things in our lives call us to do so; we cannot be a lazy sluggard and expect things in our lives to accomplish themselves. So, in no way am I saying that it is bad or futile to set goals or lay out step-by-step plans to get from point A to point B. What I am saying, however, is that in all of that, we need to first seek the Lord for our starting point this year, and always.

If we’re truly allowing the Lord to direct our steps in what He’s proposing for us right now, then we have no reason to fall for the lie that because we’re approaching February, we’re behind in our game plan for this year and we may as well give up. 

In elementary math, we learned about lines and segments. A line extends indefinitely, while a segment has a defined starting and ending point. When we believe this lie— that we’re already behind— we’ve taken our eyes off the Lord, and we’ve come to see our life, growth, and purpose as a segment. There’s a starting point and an end point (e.g., 2025 to 2026). Hence, our culture’s mindset that one year ends a certain chapter, and the new year starts the next. It’s too definitive. 

We really should view our lives like a line, which, by definition, extends infinitely in both directions with no endpoints. (Of course, I don’t mean we’ve existed forever). But God’s purposes and sanctification within us travel on a line, not a segment. It is ongoing, and He sets the points of change, not us. And the points of change do not denote the end of the line, it just set up little mile markers for us to look back on someday to remember the things of old, and how He worked in and around us. 

Bible Verses for the New Year

So sister, as we think about this new year and where we are now, it’s important to stay in step with the Spirit and move as He directs. Stepping into the new year is more about surrender and setting goals. This is the most important piece when it comes to the “practical” (day-to-day), and I believe this is something each of us just has to work out with the Lord.

I’ll leave you with some verses to use as a starting point. I encourage you to study them in your quiet time, reflect on them, and pray them. Then wait on the Lord and see what He has for you this season and in this new year! 

“Psalm 37:23: “The steps of a man are established by the Lord, and He delights in his way.”

Proverbs 3:5-7: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and turn away from evil.”

Proverbs 16:1-3: “The plans of the heart belong to a person, but the answer of the tongue is from the Lord. All the ways of a person are clean in his own sight, but the Lord examines the motives. Commit your works to the Lord, and your plans will be established.”

Proverbs 16:9: “The mind of a person plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps.”

Proverbs 20:24: “A man’s steps are ordained by the Lord; how then can a person understand his way?”

Galatians 5:16: “But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh.”

‭‭Galatians‬ ‭5‬:‭25‬-‭26‬: “If we live by the Spirit, let’s follow the Spirit as well. Let’s not become boastful, challenging one another, envying one another.”

Do you have Bible verses you’ve been meditating on in the new year? Tell me in the comments!

Take Heed: A Call to Fulfill Your Christian Ministry

Recently, when reading through Colossians, a sentence jumped out at me that I’d never taken notice of before. I don’t know why I’d never considered it the previous times I’ve read through this powerful epistle written by Paul, other than perhaps it wasn’t something the Lord needed me to focus on at the time. But, this time, it struck me as very interesting:

“And say to Archippus, ‘Take heed to the ministry which you have received in the Lord, that you may fulfill it.’”

— Colossians 4:17 NKJV

Have you ever stopped to ponder this verse? If you’re like me, sometimes when I see the names of  people in Scripture who aren’t the “star players”, I do one of two things— stop and wonder who that person was; or, I’ll skim past the name and just look at what is being said. I have to admit, when reading this chapter in the past, I likely jumped over poor Archippus and finished up the letter in verse 17. 

However, this time the Lord tapped me on the shoulder and told me to stop. Contemplate. Consider. Search into the wisdom in this short sentence. 

After all, the Holy Spirit led Paul to include this piece of information; therefore— although it’s written directly to Archippus— it’s still in there for us to read today, so let’s not neglect it.

Ministry. Take heed. Fulfill. Received. These words on their own are significant enough in certain contexts, but when strung together in proper order, coming from the Lord Himself, through the method of Paul’s hand, they are worth taking the time to investigate.

Do I Have a Christian Ministry?

In this verse, the Greek word used for ministry is diakonía. It refers to the service of all who endeavor to carry out the cause of Christ among men, through the enabling of the Lord. Christian ministry is not reserved only for those with special titles of leadership within the church— we all have areas of ministry that the Lord has given us as His daughters, whether we’ve been “officially” appointed in a role or not. 

Motherhood is a ministry. Disciplining your children is a ministry. Caring for an aging parent is a ministry. Being a faithful witness in your workplace is a ministry. Being a friendly, helpful neighbor who shines the light of Christ to those on her block is indeed a ministry. 

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You see, the Lord has placed each of us in a specific point in time, for reasons we likely will never fully comprehend on this side of Heaven. 

“And He has made from one blood every nation of men to dwell on all the face of the earth, and has determined their preappointed times and the boundaries of their dwellings, so that they should seek the Lord, in the hope that they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one of us; for in Him we live and move and have our being, as also some of your own poets have said, ‘For we are also His offspring.’ ”

— Acts 17:26-28 NKJV

It was the right time for us to hear the gospel and believe, and it’s the right time to walk within the areas of ministry He’s given us. This is our God: He has a plan and has taken care of all of the details. What we need to do is be mindful to abide in Him and walk in the Spirit so we are not missing the ways He desires for us to fulfill our ministries in the every day. 

The Lord Gives You the Ministry

Back to our friend Archippus. If we take a closer look at verse 17 of Colossians 4, we’ll notice the phrase, “which you have received in the Lord”. So do we define our ministries, or does the Lord?

In the Greek, the phrase, “which you have received” means to receive something transmitted; to take to; not to reject; not to withhold obedience. So, if we’ve received something, then it wasn’t fashioned with our own hands; it wasn’t something of our own doing. It was given to us, transmitted to us, and we are to take it in obedience.

Archippus received his ministry “in the Lord”. So then, the ministry belonged to the Lord and He had the power and authority to transmit it to Archippus. Under the Lord’s authority, Archippus was to receive it– not reject it– and be obedient. Paul shares a similar thought in Acts 20:24:

“But none of these things move me; nor do I count my life dear to myself, so that I may finish my race with joy, and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God.”

— Acts 20:24 NKJV

Sister, we can come up with the best ideas, look at all the market research and determine the supply and demand; we can create the most colorful, engaging programs— yet, if the Lord isn’t in it, then really it’s our ministry, and not of the Lord. He places desires in our hearts according to His will, and He will soften and change our hearts to bend toward those desires if we allow Him. But in order for this to happen, we must determine to not be so set in our own ideas that we don’t hear what the Lord wants to do. Remember— He has appointed us to this particular time and place, and He knows how the story will unfold.

Let’s not be too busy writing our own story that we neglect to take part in His.

As hesitant as I was to start this blog several years ago, I finally stepped out of my own way and gave up trying to write up my own ministry plans by way of excuses. It didn’t matter that I “didn’t have time”, I “wasn’t sure what to write about”, or that I had “no idea how to operate a blog”. Surely, I thought, all of these “facts” about myself meant I should just create some other type of Christian ministry! However, THIS ministry was from the Lord, and He made that abundantly clear.

My role was to: (1) realize who was (and is) in charge; and (2) receive the ministry, knowing that He would give me the ability to fulfill it. I can now honestly say “Ditto!” to Paul’s statement: “And I thank Christ Jesus our Lord who has enabled me, because He counted me faithful, putting me into the ministry” (1 Timothy 1:12 NKJV).

How Do I Fulfill My Christian Ministry? 

Do you think the Lord wants to give you a ministry, only so you can sit back and watch it dissipate due to lack of obedience on your part? May it not be so! The things in this life that the Lord gives us need to be taken seriously. Although we often personalize things and think of it as “our” ministry, remember, really it is the Lord’s. His glory is on the line— not that we have the power to mess up so badly that we can depreciate His value— but we do have the opportunity to bear witness to His greatness, His character, His creativity and point others to Him, whether unbelievers for salvation; or, believers for further growth in Him, as we carry out the ministry He’s given us. Therefore, we shouldn’t be careless.

Archippus is told to “take heed”. I know we don’t use that phrase much these days, but quite honestly, in my opinion, it comes across with a serious tone translated this way.

To take heed, in the Greek, means to to look on, regard; to turn the thoughts or direct the mind to a thing; to consider; to weigh carefully. In other verses of Scripture, take heed is used in the fashion of a warning, as in 1 Corinthians 10:12: take heed, lest you fall. (Bonus: Read other “take heed” verses in their context: 1 Corinthians 3:10; 1 Corinthians 8:8-9; Galatians 5:14-15; 1 Timothy 4:16.) In other words, be careful to do a certain thing so the desired result comes to pass; otherwise, something else will happen instead. Perhaps the implied here is to take heed to carry out the ministry, otherwise your attention will go elsewhere and you won’t fulfill it.

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Fulfilling your ministry is done by walking in step with the Lord. It’s ok to have a vision for the “big picture”, but more importantly, we have to be mindful of what He is telling us in the moment. Obey Step A, and He will lead you to Step B. We don’t have to fulfill it all in one day— it’s a process, a season, or for some, even a lifetime. And let me also say that the Lord will lead you to different areas of ministry throughout your life— again, some for a season; some for a lifetime. Whatever the ministry is, it’s more about being obedient in the daily. He knows who needs to be reached today; who needs the gospel today; who needs discipled today; and which tasks need checked off today. 

Fulfilling your ministry doesn’t happen by constantly worrying about tomorrow. Just stay faithful to Him today. 

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Don’t Be Distracted in Ministry

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Take Heed: Don’t Get Distracted From Your Ministry

Fulfilling the ministry the Lord has given us means we cannot fulfill every other purpose and plan that we, and others, come up with for our lives.  Commentator Matthew Henry says of Colossians 4:17: 

“…to be careful and diligent of all parts of it, and persevere in it unto the end. They must attend to the main design of their ministry, without troubling themselves or the people with things foreign to it, or of less moment.”

I see this commentary as meaning: we shouldn’t trouble ourselves with things foreign to our ministry— things that can easily become a distraction or pull our attention elsewhere, no matter how good. And, let’s not be distracted by things that seem urgent or pressing now, if in fact they are not more important than our ministry.

We must know how to prioritize.

Aside from Archippus, Paul gives a similar “take heed” exhortation to Timothy in 2 Timothy 4:5. The word “fulfill” in this verse is a different Greek word than the one used in Colossians 4:17, but contains a similar thought. To Timothy, Paul used the Greek word, “plerophoreo”: to bear or bring full; to fulfill the ministry in every part; to carry through to the end; to accomplish.

“But you be watchful in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry. ”

— 2 Timothy 4:5 NKJV

Essentially, Paul says that in order to take heed to the ministry we have received in the Lord, we need to be watchful in all things— sober-minded, calm and collected in Spirit; not easily distracted by other things. We must be ready and willing to endure afflictions, not allowing them to discourage us or throw us off course. We must turn to the Lord for strength and perseverance, remembering that He is the one who gave us the ministry in the first place, and what He has begun in us He will always complete.

Sister, we have to remember that what we do for the Lord is not in vain; not wasted! It is easy (and natural) to become weary. Yet, the Lord calls us to be steady during those times. 1 Corinthians 15:58 tells us, “Therefore, my beloved brothers and sisters, be steadfast, immovable, always excelling in the work of the Lord [always doing your best and doing more than is needed], being continually aware that your labor [even to the point of exhaustion] in the Lord is not futile nor wasted [it is never without purpose]. -Amplified Bible

No matter how “insignificant” our work seems to be, our calling is great because it is from Him! In our weariness, our distractions, and hardships, we can lean on Him knowing that He will not leave us hanging. He will bring to pass the purposes He sovereignly desires. What a blessing that He wants us to be a part of it!

To Fulfill Your Christian Ministry: 1st Be Filled

I’m saving this point for the end because often we remember the last thing someone has said to us. This one is important; in fact, without this decision, we are fulfilling our ministry in vain.

In order to adequately fulfill our mission in Him, we must be filled with the knowledge of Him and His will. This is considered a “first things first” kind of thing.

Just as Paul prays for the Colossians in chapter 1:9-10, in order to be ready, willing, and able to truly take heed to the ministry the Lord gave us, we must be “filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding.” From there, the goal is that we would “walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God.” The knowledge of Him and His will for our lives comes first. Without knowing Him we cannot walk worthy, fully please Him, or be fruitful in the good works He has prepared for us, such as the ministry He has given us. 

Perhaps when we are spinning our wheels and feel we aren’t being productive in the things we’re doing for Him, it’s because we are lacking in our knowledge of Him; our intimacy with Him. We have pulled away and aren’t fully abiding.

Perhaps, it is a call from Him that in this time, this moment, we need to lean in and go deeper in the knowledge of Him.

Being only partially filled with the knowledge of Him, we can still walk— but not fully worthy; we can still be fruitful— but not in every good work; and we can still please Him— but only minimally and not fully.

Don’t confuse the partial results with the true results— the full results of a life filled with the knowledge of Him. A glass half full can aid in dehydration, but a full glass, one that is overflowing, even (such are the provisions He typically gives— overflowing and abounding!), can quench and fully satisfy.

Sister, I implore you (and me!) to seek Him diligently through the Word; through prayer; by simply abiding and being still.

To Fulfill Your Ministry: Take Heed to Yourself

Keep tracking with me, sister: when we are taking heed to our ministry and we are sure to stay close to the Lord— to stay in that intimate place; to stay in the Word— then we must also be diligent to follow what we’re teaching in our ministry. We can’t expect others to grow in their walk with the Lord if they are looking to us as an example, yet we are not doing so. (*Ouch*) As Paul says, “Lest when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified” (1 Corinthians 9:27). We must see ourselves as both the facilitator of the ministry, and a recipient. 

In other words, don’t just take heed to your ministry. Also take heed to yourself. 

We stay grounded in our faith. We put on the things of the Lord. We put to death the behaviors of the flesh. We walk by the Spirit. We stand fast in the Lord. We operate in love. 

“And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.”

— Colossians 4:17 NKJV

Sister, let’s step out of the way and truly let the Lord use us! Go where He wants to go. Do the work that He wants to do. In all these things, let’s remain thankful to the Lord because He is mindful of us and gives us the opportunity to take part in His plans and purposes. Our ministries will bring glory to Him as we do them in His name.

So I say to you: Take heed to the ministry you have received in the Lord, that you may fulfill it!

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5 Ways to Let Your Light Shine

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 Has anyone ever asked you if you were a Christian? I can recall the first time someone asked me. The question surprised me, but also blessed me at the same time. I won’t retell the full story here (you can find it in this post), but I will say that there is something very important about ensuring that your actions, words, and demeanor reflect our risen Savior. At the time of this person asking me, I don’t think that I was necessarily an amazing reflection of Christ (I was a fairly new believer at the time– I barely knew anything!); however, I suppose there was enough of His light shining through me during that interaction, that it was noticeable to this (seemingly) other believer.

Since that day, I’ve learned that there is an intentionality we must have in our walk with Christ. He tells us that we are the salt of the earth, and the light of the world (Matthew 5:13-14). And, as the light of the world, we are to let our light shine.

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You Are the Light of the World

Before we dive into how to let your light shine, let’s first pause and read the verses that contain the well-known truth spoken by Jesus, “you are the light of the world”:

“You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.”

— Matthew 5:14-16 NKJV

The amazing thing about this statement is that Jesus first said it about Himself! We find in various Scriptures, such as John 8:12, that Jesus refers to Himself as the Light of the world. Jesus came to bring light to a dark world; to bring hope and life, and free us from the power of sin and death. The kingdom of darkness cannot hold a candle to the kingdom of Light— the kingdom of the Beloved Son. 

So then, as we are now in Christ— those who follow Christ and have been made new in Him— we are the light. Because He is in us, we are now the light bearers with the responsibility of shining the light of Christ through our lives as we share the gospel and live as the hands and feet of Jesus. What a high call and responsibility; something that can only be done by His grace!

Ephesians 5:9 says, “For the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness, and truth.” As the light of the world, you and I are to represent goodness, righteousness, and truth. All of these things can only be found in the Lord, which is why it’s so imperative that we abide in Him. Our fellowship should be with the Lord, not with the darkness. The light shining through us will not only expose the darkness, but also bring into view those things which are acceptable to the Lord. As believers, we are challenged by the fact that we are automatically deemed as the light of the world; yet, as with anything in our Christian walk, it takes intentionality and wise decisions to carry out this high calling the Lord has placed on our lives. {There’s so much more that could be said! You can dive slightly deeper into this topic— moving from darkness into light— in this post.}

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Let Your Light Shine

Sister, I’ll say it again– this is why I truly appreciate companies and ministries like my friends at Good News T-Shirts. They are ready and willing to be a light in a dark world. Their owner, Sarah, said of their brand, that they are a family-owned business, “dedicated to spreading God's Word through Scripture-based apparel. Our mission is to create meaningful, conversation-starting t-shirts that encourage faith, discipleship, and sharing the Good News of Jesus.”

Do you hear the intentionality in that? It’s not just about creating t-shirts, bags, and other apparel with cute sayings to make a quick sale— the underworking of their mission is to let the light of Christ shine in all they do and create, while providing you with a tool that sparks conversation and gives you a practical opportunity to be a light in the world. 

Let’s not miss the grace of God in the fact that believers are the light of the world– the grace we see in that we were once darkness, but now are light in the Lord (Ephesians 5:8— go read it!). Take notice– the interesting thing about this verse is that it doesn’t say that we were once IN darkness— it says that we WERE darkness. Although the former thought is true as well, in that we fumbled around blindly, in darkness before Christ rescued us, it’s also eye-opening to realize that we, in and of ourselves, once were darkness. Inside of us was a void, and we were darkness. But now, in Christ, we are light! We can walk in His light, yes, but by the grace of God, we are light! 

After telling us that we are the light of the world in Matthew 5, Jesus goes on to say that a city set on a hill cannot be hidden. It was built there for a reason— to be exposed, noticeable, and to light up the surrounding landscape. That’s us! Jesus is building us on a proverbial hill, with the intent that we would remain on the hill, not go and hide under a basket. Good News T-Shirts, like so many of you, is choosing to remain steadfast and rooted on that hill, with a willing heart to bring the light of Christ to a dark world.

How to Let Your Light Shine

The purpose of being the light of the world is to bring the Truth to the world, so that God may be glorified (Matthew 5:16). This is why Jesus says that it’s no use for a lamp to be hidden under a basket. Under a basket, the light is muffled, easily overcome by darkness, and reaches no one. It has a weakened ability to bring glory to God. 

May we not hide under a basket, sister! Finally, let’s chat about how to let your light shine in some practical ways. Of course, this is in no way an exhaustive list— just a handful of things I believe line up with Scripture, that were on my heart to share, and can be practically done, in His strength!

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#1: Abide in Christ

First and foremost, the only way we can properly give off the light we’ve been given is to abide in the Light Himself. In John 12, Jesus refers to Himself as light, telling His listeners that they had Him present with them as light, and they should believe in the light, lest they walk in darkness and it overcome them (verse 35). Believing in the light in turn would allow them to become sons of light (verse 36), and therefore they would no longer abide in darkness (verse 46).

In Christ, we are free from the darkness, but we also must decide to abide in the Light— in Christ. It’s a daily decision to rest in His ways, believe His promises, and allow Him to direct our steps. Abiding in Him allows us to draw from His strength and bear the fruit in our lives that pleases Him. Without Him, we can do nothing (John 15), so why try to be His witness to a dark world on our own? It will be of no avail. We must stay as closely connected as possible to the vine—the ultimate power source— so our light shines all the more brightly.

#2: Study the Word

When you think of a light source, such as a lamp, in order to operate as it was designed to do, it must first be connected to the ultimate power source, which gives it its power and ability to produce light. Within that connection, there has to be an understanding of what this ultimate source is doing for the light source as it is connected; there has to be a belief in the power and ability of the ultimate source to create and sustain the light in which the lamp is producing. And, there has to be a trust in the ultimate source that the electrical current being provided is safe, true, and exactly what the lamp needs. Otherwise, the lamp would have no desire to stay connected to the source.

I know I’m personifying a lamp, but just go with me for a second! 

This is all true for us too, sister, as we are the lights who need to trust in the Ultimate Light. We come to know, understand, and trust the Lord more by first abiding, but also by being faithful to study His Word. The Scriptures communicate the truth of who He is— His character, attributes, and promises. The degree to which our light shines brightly is greatly affected by how much we believe Him, and believe in Him. We must know unarguably and undoubtedly that He is faithful, honorable, and true, and that He will keep our path lit (Psalm 119:105) so that we can light the path for others straight back to Him.

Allow Him to speak to you in your quiet time, through prayer, and in the studying of His Word. You will miss so much of Him if you are skimping on your Bible time. Let’s be sisters who are faithful to read and live out His Word!

#3. Yield to the Spirit

In Christ, we have the Spirit in us, and He will guide us into all Truth, as His work is to glorify the Lord (John 16:13-14). Therefore, to effectively walk in the light and let our light shine, following the promptings of the Holy Spirit is the best way to ensure our actions are pleasing to the Father.

There are many times we may want to follow our flesh and avoid a situation, a particular conversation, or a specific person because we fear it may get awkward. We fear we may be rejected when we start speaking the Truth. But if it’s what the Lord wants us to do in that moment, then we should trust that He has a purpose and will give us the courage to speak and the words to say. 

It is not for our glory anyway, so let’s not worry about feeling awkward! I’m speaking to myself here, too. Remember, letting our light shine is for the glory of the Father, and the Spirit will make sure that happens if we walk in Him in those moments.

#4: Fellowship

Fellowship with other believers may seem a little out of place here, since we’re talking about being a city set on a hill and how to let your light shine— all of which make us immediately think of reaching a dark world. And indeed, this is what we’re talking about. However, let’s not forget that rubbing shoulders with other lights can aid in keeping you grounded in your faith via encouragement and exhortation. We need Christ, and we need each other! Our gifts serve others, perhaps giving them the inspiration and courage to step out and let their light shine a little brighter. And, they can do the same for you. Let’s not forsake fellowship and gathering with other believers (Hebrews 10:24-25).

#5: Don’t Hold Back

This one takes us back to my friends at Good News T-Shirts. Sister, when I see a person or a company that is unashamed of the gospel of Christ and willing to put themselves out there with the sole mission of bringing others to Him, it exhilarates me. This is what this brand stands for. From the first time we spoke, and in viewing their website, I could tell that they have a passion for simplicity— a simplicity that keeps the focus on Christ. There’s no need for extra fluff, gimmicks, or flashy ways to attract people. It’s Christ alone at the forefront of Good News T-Shirts, and He is enough. 

They are dedicated to sharing God’s Word through their apparel and are dedicated to spreading encouragement and sparking conversations. This is what I mean by “don’t hold back”. Some of us have no trouble opening our mouths and proclaiming the gospel, anytime, anywhere. Others of us tend to be more hesitant. That’s where the family behind this brand steps in, using their gifts to help build up other believers. Pop on a t-shirt or carry a tote bag donned with the pure Word of God—not catchy sayings— and you’ve got an instant conversation starter. The simplicity of the t-shirt designs doesn’t distract from the ability to make Scripture the focal point, which allows those around you to encounter the Word of God and allows you an opportunity to be a light in the world. Others may ask you what the verse you’re wearing means, or why you chose that Scripture, and you have an instant opportunity to let your light shine— to proclaim the good news of the gospel and the power of God.

Not only are we not holding back as we wear Scripture, but in the process of deciding to do so, we are likely walking through the other 4 points on which we just touched:

• When we’re abiding in Christ, we’re gaining a better understanding of His character and gaining the peace that only He gives, therefore making us more relaxed, open, and willing to do whatever He wants us to do to glorify His name.

• Studying the Word gives us the ability to understand and interpret these verses, which can bring clarity to the conversations we may have with those who ask.

• More trust in the Lord and His promises gives us the regular desire to yield to the Spirit, perhaps even in the moments when we’re getting dressed and He tells us to put on our Scripture-based t-shirt. As silly as that sounds, we can trust that He has a purpose and plan for it, and He knows who may need to see the verse on our shirt or bag that day. We can also yield to the Spirit in those moments when we know He’s calling us to speak up and share the gospel or the Truth of the Word.

• And, as we go deeper in fellowship with other believers, we’ll be more compelled to do the work of Christ because we have the encouragement from the rest of the body building us up. 

Be a City Set on a Hill!

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While we’re talking about it, let me just tell you about the quality of this tote, sister! When I got my tote out of the packaging, I immediately could feel the sturdiness of the heavy canvas; the size is perfect for not only carrying my thick study Bible, but also my notebook, pens, phone, and small clutch purse (all my church-going essentials!), with no fear of the bottom falling out or the handles being ripped. I’ve been looking for a larger (but not awkwardly large), quality tote bag like this for years! It’s 100% cotton and can even be washed, as needed. 

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May we all shine brightly in His name and for His glory!

Discover and Live Out Your Purpose

Guest Post By: Emily Christine

As Christian women, we often find ourselves asking the question, "What is my purpose?" This question can linger in our minds, especially during seasons of change or uncertainty. However, the truth is, every Christian woman has been uniquely created by God for a specific purpose—one that not only brings fulfillment and meaning but also serves His greater kingdom. The key is discovering that purpose and living it out in every aspect of our lives. In this post, I’ll share how you can uncover God’s purpose for your life and the steps you can take to align your actions, choices, and daily living with His divine plan for you.

The first step in living out your God-given purpose is understanding what that purpose is. For some women, this may seem like a daunting task—especially when faced with multiple roles and responsibilities. However, understanding God’s purpose isn’t about finding just one "big" calling. It’s about recognizing how God’s will manifests in our everyday lives, from how we show love to our families to how we serve in our communities.

Seek God’s Guidance

To discover God’s purpose, begin by seeking His guidance through prayer, Scripture, and reflection. The Bible assures us that when we seek the Lord with all our hearts, He will reveal Himself to us (Jeremiah 29:13). God’s purpose for our lives is not something hidden or elusive; it is something He wants us to understand clearly so that we can walk in it with confidence. By immersing ourselves in His Word, we begin to recognize the gifts, talents, and passions He has instilled within us that are meant to serve His kingdom.

Don’t Overlook Relationships

In many cases, God’s purpose for us unfolds in the context of our relationships—whether it’s within our families, friendships, or broader communities. As Christian women, we are called to reflect God’s love to others, and this often involves sacrificial service, encouragement, and hospitality. Through these relationships, God refines our hearts and teaches us how to live out His love and purpose in tangible ways.

Overcome Doubts and Fears

Once we begin to sense God’s call, doubts and fears often arise. These feelings can be paralyzing and prevent us from stepping fully into the life God has prepared for us. Insecurity, fear of failure, or concerns about our abilities can easily overshadow our faith. However, Scripture reminds us that we are never alone in our calling.

Combat Insecurity with Truth

Insecurity is one of the most common obstacles Christian women face when stepping into their God-given purpose. We may doubt whether we are capable or qualified to pursue the calling God has placed on our hearts. But Scripture reminds us that God doesn’t call the equipped—He equips the called. And while 2 Corinthians 12:9 teaches us that “His grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness,” it’s important to recognize that God’s call often emphasizes the sufficiency of His grace and His power working through our weaknesses. When we feel inadequate, we must turn to God’s promises, remembering that His strength is made perfect in our weakness.

Instead of thinking of "equipping" as simply gaining skills, talents, or abilities to make things easier, we need to understand that God’s grace enables us to fulfill our purpose, even when we feel inadequate. In our weaknesses, we are reminded of our need for God, and it is through this dependence on Him that His power is perfected.

Battling Fear with Faith

Fear is another major hindrance to fulfilling God’s plan. Whether it’s fear of failure, fear of what others might think, or fear of stepping into the unknown, these fears can keep us from trusting God fully. But Scripture teaches us that “God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind” (2 Timothy 1:7). Trusting in God’s character—His love, faithfulness, and goodness—helps us overcome fear and embrace His purpose for us with boldness and confidence.

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Practical Steps to Purposeful Living

Living a life aligned with God’s purpose is not something that happens overnight. It requires intentional action and daily choices. Here are some simple yet powerful steps you can take to live out your God-given purpose:

#1: Prioritize Your Time with God

Purposeful living begins with a strong foundation of faith. Dedicate time each day for Bible study, prayer, and reflection. This will keep you rooted in God’s Word and help you discern His will for your life.

#2: Serve Others

God’s purpose for your life is often realized through service to others. Whether it’s serving your family, your church, or your community, look for opportunities to use your unique gifts to make a difference in the lives of those around you.

#3: Live with Integrity

Align your actions with your faith in every area of life—whether it’s in the workplace, at home, or in social settings. By living with integrity and staying true to your values, you honor God and set an example for others.

#4: Set Purposeful Goals

Take time to set goals that align with your faith and values. Whether they’re personal, professional, or spiritual goals, write them down and pray over them. As you work toward your goals, ask God to lead and guide you, and trust that He will equip you for the journey ahead.

#5: Cultivate Gratitude and Contentment

Sometimes, we get so focused on our goals that we forget to appreciate the blessings we have right now. Practice gratitude by taking time each day to thank God for His provision, love, and guidance.

#6: Remember The Power of Prayer in Finding Purpose

Prayer is one of the most powerful tools for discovering and living out your purpose. It is in prayer that we lay down our doubts, fears, and plans before God and invite Him to lead us. Through prayer, we gain clarity and direction for the path He has for us.

God’s purpose for our lives isn’t a one-size-fits-all blueprint; it’s a unique, personal journey that requires constant communication with Him. Prayer is not just about asking for what we want—it’s about aligning our hearts with God’s will and trusting Him to guide us. Through prayer, we ask God to reveal His plans for us, and He responds with peace, wisdom, and insight.

Sometimes, we know God is calling us to step out in faith, but we’re unsure or afraid. In these moments, prayer can help us gain the courage to move forward. Ask God to give you the boldness to pursue His calling without fear of failure or judgment.

#7: Live with Intentionality

To truly live out your God-given purpose, it’s essential to cultivate intentionality in your life. Living intentionally means making choices that reflect your values, goals, and the calling God has placed on your heart.

Every Christian woman has been given unique gifts and talents to serve God and others. The key is recognizing those gifts and intentionally using them for His glory. Whether it’s teaching, hospitality, counseling, or leadership, God has equipped you for a specific purpose in His kingdom.

Living with intentionality means being bold in pursuing what God has called you to. It’s easy to shy away from challenges or opportunities that require stepping out of our comfort zones, but God encourages us to be courageous. As we live boldly for Him, we inspire others to do the same.

Discover and Live Out Your Purpose

Discovering and living out your God-given purpose is a journey—a lifelong process of growth, reflection, and obedience. It’s not about achieving perfection but about aligning your heart with God’s will and living with intentionality, faith, and purpose. As Christian women, we are uniquely equipped to live lives that reflect God’s love and serve His kingdom in powerful ways.

By seeking God through prayer, overcoming doubts with His truth, and taking practical steps to live with purpose, we can walk confidently in the path He has laid before us. God’s purpose for our lives is not only for our benefit but also for the good of others and the glory of His name. Step out today, trusting that God is with you every step of the way as you discover and live out the unique calling He has placed on your life.

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Emily Christine is a passionate Christian blogger and writer who inspires and equips others to live out their faith in practical, everyday ways. Emily’s writing reflects her love for Scripture, her commitment to helping others, and her deep belief in the transformative power of God’s Word. When she’s not writing, Emily enjoys spending time with her family, reading, and exploring ways to live out her faith with purpose.

Cultivating Christian Community

No one was meant to live alone on an island. We all need a community– not just a group of people to belong to, but the sense that we belong. In a community, we have commonalities, similar thought processes, and interests. Or quite honestly, we have many differences, but the bond of love that is created still enables us to function as a whole and enjoy each other’s company.

The people who get you. Those who understand your point of view, even if they don’t agree with you 100% of the time. Those who are aware of your quirks and love you anyway. Those who hold your hand, either when you’re crying, or to pull you along to go grab some coffee.

The ones you can tell your deepest fears, heartaches, joys, and dreams. They rejoice in the Lord with you and hold you accountable when you falter.

Can you picture a few faces in your head? I bet you can.

What is Christian Community?

The community we are talking about today isn’t the hub or town where you live. I’m referring to that sense of community for which our souls long: Christian community.

The definition of community is a feeling of fellowship with others, as a result of sharing common attitudes, interests, and goals.

As believers– no matter our backgrounds, ethnicities, or favorite movie genres– we can come alongside one another and seamlessly bond together. No matter how great our differences, we have one commonality that is greater than the sum of them:

The Holy Spirit.

“Therefore I, the prisoner of the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, being diligent to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit, just as you also were called in one hope of your calling; one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all who is over all and through all and in all.  ”

— Ephesians 4:1-6 NASB

The Spirit lives within us. And sister, He yields a unity between us like no other. This unity is the feeling you get when you meet a random stranger who you learn is a believer, and within several minutes of chatting, you feel like you’ve known her for years.

The Spirit provides the atmosphere for a Christian community to flourish because God is over all and through all and in all.

How to Build Christian Community

Once we focus on the fact that the Spirit is already working in us, through us, and creating that perfect unity, understanding how to build a Christian community seems a little less daunting.

Here’s what I mean.

Let me encourage you with a few things I’ve seen in my own life that have been beneficial in building a community:

Live a Godly lifestyle.

It starts with seeking the Lord and pursuing righteousness. You make time for God, grow in your walk, and live out the Word. You live for the glory of God alone.

Fellowship regularly.

Don’t hide, sister! You can’t build Christian community if no one ever sees you. You may feel more comfortable being alone, but again, the Lord desires that you fellowship with others, build each other up (Romans 14:9), and bless one another (Acts 4:32). Go to church. Serve. Attend Bible study and special events. Go to that girl’s night out. Get to know each other!

Create Godly friendships.

A Godly friendship begins when you first seek the Lord and live a godly lifestyle. Then, you link up with others who do the same. When Christ is at the center of a relationship, amazing things happen. He gives you a heart that is loyal to one another and seeks to bring Him glory in your association.

Be the person who connects people.

Once you get to know others, be the person who is mindful of ways you can connect friend to friend. Do you have two friends with kids who are similar ages? Friends who are both in the thick of potty training toddlers? Or, maybe they’re both avid runners? Introduce them. Be the person who aids in the igniting of the spark of new friendships.

Just relax.

All of the above can sound like a little much, right (especially if you tend to be introverted!)? Starting and growing new relationships can be a lot of work; well worth it, but it takes time, effort, and patience.

But God. That other person is His creation just like you are. He desires for her to walk worthy of her calling, use her spiritual gifts for His glory, and to fellowship with other believers.

These are the things He desires for you too. So if this is true, then understand that He will orchestrate the many facets of partaking in Christian community and guide you in every step. With the Lord as your guide, you won’t have to strive to make things happen on your own.

Unity in Christian Community

So, we’ve talked about how to build Christian community, or in other words, how to establish it. But, once you have an established community, how do you create a sense of community in the group? What components make for that rich fellowship that manifests itself within the group?

Let’s look to Philippians 2.

“So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord, and of one mind.”

— Philippians 2:1-2 ESV

These verses speak of unity. If Christ is at the center of your group, then, and only then, can there be a bond of unity through Him. 

The Apostle Paul says that when we operate as a community in Christ, we have the ability to be of the same mind, acting in Christ’s love, and unified under the same banner. 

Why? Because we are unified through Christ– not our likes, dislikes, and commonalities. Through Christ.

In Him, we have encouragement, comfort in His love, fellowship in the Spirit, and the ability to show affection and mercy. The Spirit works through us and in our midst to bring about that deep sense of relational community between us.

And it goes on,

“Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.”

— Philippians 2:3-4 ESV

Therefore, as we fellowship in the Spirit and He directs the bonds we are creating, He helps us see each other through His eyes. But more importantly, He allows us to see ourselves through His eyes. And in doing so, we are led to look out for the welfare of others. 

• In creating a God-honoring community, we are not selfish. 

• We don’t seek friendships only for personal gain.

• We remain humble.

• We look into and out for the interests of others. 

Sister, the process of moving from how to build Christian community, to establishing and creating a sense of community is one of first seeking the Lord so you can learn to be a godly friend. From there, as you allow the Spirit to work in you and within your community, He gives you the heart attitude necessary to create a culture of humility and selflessness, operating in one mind to glorify Him.

Are You Growing or Dying?

Creating Christian community is a process, friend. First, you build it (as led by the Lord); then, you establish a sense of community within the group. Thankfully we have the Lord to help us along the way!

But, don’t tune out yet. We have one more piece of the puzzle. 

There is a saying that speaks to the idea that nothing ever “stays the same” (except the Lord, of course! He never changes). Everything is either growing or dying. 

Meaning, that our default mode isn’t one where we remain constant, smooth sailing on cruise control. Despite what many think, we can’t become grounded in our faith, and then just let it go, expecting it to maintain itself. 

No— we are either growing in the Lord or our faith flame is flickering out. 

There needs to be a consistent effort on our part to seek the Lord and be diligent to grow in Him. He’s always there, but we decide to come to Him.

Stagnation equals death— in our relationships, our spiritual growth, and within our community. 

So, creating Christian community isn’t enough. From there, we must make efforts to cultivate it.

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Cultivating Your Christian Community

The definition of cultivate is to foster the growth of something. One of the most beautiful models we have for this is seen within the first church:

“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers. And awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common. And they were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved. ”

— Acts 2:42-47 ESV

There is something that sounds so delightful about that, isn’t there? I truly believe that this is such a good model in which our churches can still operate today.

But sister, not just our churches— our small groups, our pockets of ministry, and the community we’re building among friends. 

• Being devoted to studying the Word.

• Being devoted to fellowship and prayer with one another.

• Being together as believers.

• Having all things in common— the unity that only Christ provides.

• Committing to being present with others, in church and through the hospitality we show within our homes.

• Having a grateful attitude— counting it a blessing to receive, as well as to give generously to our sisters. 

Because the fact of the matter is, we ARE the Church. Therefore, this isn’t only a good model for our churches. It’s also a good model for us as individuals; an example we can follow as we’re cultivating community with our friendships.

Sister, this is how we cultivate Christian community: Being mindful of the Lord’s will for our community, we allow Him to light the flame, and then, with His direction, we fan it these ways.

Not only do these components draw us closer to the Lord and each other, but they also yield blessings: 

Unification. Needs are filled. We have favor with people. Our community grows as the Lord directs it to grow. 

When we create community and step aside and let the Lord cultivate it and foster its growth, it will flourish beyond what we can imagine.

What is Christian Community Without the Lord?

Nothing. No matter what you do, how many steps you take, or all of the effort you make in building friendships, you’ll never know how to build community if you don’t put Christ at the center. All of your efforts will be in vain.

But here’s what I know, sister. You are loved and cherished by God. He wants your life to bring Him glory as you walk out His purposes for you. He wants you to play your part in strengthening other believers because you are valuable and He’s given you spiritual gifts to use.

You were created on purpose. There is no one like you. This means that no one can have another friend exactly like you. If you stay in the dark, hide, and dodge building friendships and community, there will be sisters missing out on something influential, special, and unique in their lives:

The relationship they can have with you.

Sister, allow the Lord to use you as He sees fit in the lives of others. Trust Him as He guides and directs your steps in building Christian community for His glory.

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Waiting Well: A Lesson in Patience

I have a feeling you’ll be able to relate to some of this, sister…

When we were kids, we couldn’t wait to be teenagers. As teenagers, we couldn’t wait to drive, and then one day become adults. Maybe if you’re currently single, you desire to be married. Or perhaps you’re waiting to have kids. One day, you’ll be waiting for those kids to have kids so you can become a grandparent!

Or, more solemnly, perhaps it’s your prodigal child who’s turned his heart from the Lord, that you’re prayerfully waiting to return. Possibly, you’re waiting for the test results to come back so the doctor can determine an official diagnosis. Or, you’re waiting for a breakthrough in the difficulties enveloping your marriage.

Waiting is seldom easy. In fact, it can be downright difficult. But, it’s always possible– it truly is. I know it doesn’t feel that way at the moment, but let’s take our feelings off of the table for the time being, shall we? As women, we often focus too much on how we feel in a particular situation, and allow those emotions to determine how we navigate the waters. This is true for so many areas of our lives, but particularly true when we’re waiting; when we’re doing our best to be patient.

As a Christian, patience is a key character trait in our faith. Our goal should be to patiently endure as Christ did. We are called to be patient with others, patient with the Lord as we wait on Him, and to let patience have its perfect work within us (James 1:4). We have the Holy Spirit in us, guiding and directing our steps– but we must be still and listen. We can have patience as we allow Him to work in us in the hard times– the times of waiting for days, weeks, or even years. We can choose to fret or to wait patiently for the God who is sovereign over our lives (Psalm 37:7).

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What is patience?

Cambridge Dictionary defines patience as “the ability to wait, or to continue doing something despite difficulties, or to suffer without complaining or becoming annoyed.”

Often, in various translations of the Bible, patience is called “longsuffering”. It’s the idea of being able to suffer long; however, not just for a long time, but to also suffer well. Patience is the opposite of quick anger and loss of control. There is a strength that we exude when we operate in patience, and on the contrary, a weakness when we react impatiently.

If you’ve been following our Godly Woman Wardrobe series, you know that patience (or longsuffering) is the 5th character trait we are to put on according to Colossians 3:12-14.

“Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do. But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection. ”

— Colossians 3:12-14 NKJV

We can be patient and endure because of the hope we have in Christ (1 Thessalonians 1:3). Patience is a flex of our endurance muscle, giving us the ability to wait on the Lord’s timing, trust in the Lord’s goodness, and believe the outcome of our trials will be for our good and His glory. Endurance takes faith—not passivity— to work. In faith, we can be still and allow God to be God in our lives.

And of course, sister, what is patience if not one of the beautiful pieces of the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22). Through the sanctification process, as the Spirit is at work in our lives changing us to be more and more like Christ, we ever increasingly live and breathe the character of God. In obedience to the Holy Spirit and His promptings, we can then exhibit patience, even in the toughest moments and circumstances.

How to be patient

In terms of discovering how to be patient, keep in mind that, like any other aspect of our faith, patience isn’t a one-size-fits-all character trait. God will provide different situations in the lives of each of us to help us grow in patience. What circumstances that cause me to learn how to have more patience may look drastically different than the situations that cause you to flex your endurance. Let us not compare; instead, let us be mindful of the things of God: His personalized, customized working of sanctification in us, and walk worthy of the particular calling He has set before us.

As we look at these five, general ways to slow down, take a step back, and be mindful of our growth in patience, we can do so knowing that the Lord will give each of us the strength and endurance due to us so that we can glorify Him in the process.

Please note: There are so many ways to learn how to be patient. You could likely come up with your own list of five! I encourage you to comb through the Scriptures and discover all of the Bible verses about patience. To get you started, here are a few things the Lord has laid on my heart.

#1: Wait on the Lord.

Wait on the Lord; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; wait, I say, on the Lord!  -Psalm 27:14 NKJV

Not long after becoming a stay-at-home mom, I felt the Lord telling us it was time to have a 3rd child. After getting pregnant fairly quickly, I had a miscarriage. If you’ve ever experienced a miscarriage, or know someone who has, you know how difficult it is. For me, the next part of the equation was very trying as well– waiting to get pregnant again. This had never been something I struggled with before (and I know many who have, so believe me, I do not take this for granted and am very thankful), so it became a very confusing time for me. I began wondering if my body was still working correctly and why it would take so long when I knew it was the Lord who had placed the desire on my heart to have another child. Why was He withholding?

I had so many questions throughout the year that it took me to conceive again, and I truly had to dig deep to walk out the words of this verse. To be of good courage; to wait; to allow Him to strengthen my heart– these were all things I could not do on my own. When my fleshly thoughts wanted to take over, I had to remember that His words do not return void and He is the Ultimate Promisekeeper. Recalling the truth of His character helped me to endure in hope during that time. And, while I waited, He reminded me that He is my portion, and all I need (Lamentations 3:24).

#2: Be patient in affliction.

Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer. — Romans 12:12 ESV

Did you know you have something in common with Moses, Abraham, Job, Paul (and many others in the Bible)? It’s easily summed up in one word: TRIALS!  Trials and storms will come in this life; there is no question about it (John 16:33). In my opinion, knowing this truth reminds me that there is no use trying to avoid tough times and tribulations– they’ll find us anyway! 

God, being the gracious, loving, and sovereign Father He is, gives us the strength we need to be patient and stand firm, even in affliction. Amid our tribulations, we can fix our eyes on the Lord, trusting Him to take care of all we need as He leads us through. Patience in affliction comes via trust in Him, prayer, and steadfastness to keep His Word.

#3: Be patient in relationships. 

Now we exhort you, brethren, warn those who are unruly, comfort the fainthearted, uphold the weak, be patient with all. — 1 Thessalonians 5:14 NKJV

Whether our spouse, kids, co-workers, or brothers and sisters in Christ, we are called to be patient with all. And, if you weren’t sure, all means all. :) That includes those who are unruly– a little stubborn in their opinions or perhaps even argumentative. We’re told we should, as the Thessalonians we also instructed, warn or admonish them firmly and gently– in a way that still is loving. We sprinkle our words with grace and truth, and honor Christ in the way we respond, react, and instruct.

What about comforting the fainthearted– those who, as it means in the original Greek, are “little spirited” or “feebleminded.” We can easily lose our patience with friends or family who don’t get it; or those fellow Christians who may have weaker confidence in the things of the Lord. Yet this is where we’re called to walk slowly; take a seat, and encourage. Drop back to their pace and run alongside them, helping them grow and come to understand the things you hope in on a deeper level.

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And then, as the verse above also states, we’re to uphold the weak. Whether physically, mentally, or perhaps weaker and less firm in their faith– as the Lord upholds us, we’re in turn to do the same for others. There’s no good reason to expect too much from them– give them grace and time to seek the Lord for themselves as well. We can show Christ’s love as we care for, hold fast to, or support those who are more feeble. 

Being “patient with all” writes the story not only of how we treat those who need our support, but also of how we respond to others when we’re the ones who are not encouraged, upheld, and comforted, but instead, slandered or insulted. Patience can be tasted on our tongue as we give a soft answer instead of wrath (Proverbs 15:1); felt in our mind as we think before we speak (Proverbs 15:28); or perhaps palpable in our being as we’re slow to anger (Proverbs 14:29).

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25 Pro Tips for Patience in Relationships

How to be patient…when you’re tired, you don’t feel like it, or when it’s hard. These are all things we face as we navigate our relationships with others. You’re not alone, sister and the Bible offers us so much wisdom on this topic! Here’s a FREE guide with 25 simple, yet in-depth tips based on Romans 12. Fill out the form below.

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#4: Show patience in serving. 

And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all, especially to those who are of the household of faith. -Galatians 6:9-10 NKJV

Things may not always shape up in the way we expect them to, especially when it comes to serving others, but we can trust the Lord that if we are surely operating inside of His will, our serving will not be in vain. Therefore, no matter what it looks like, we focus on the “doing good” and not the “weary”. This proper focus allows our gaze to be fixed on the truth that there is always a season coming, whereas what the Lord purposes for us will be reaped. 

It can be hard. It can be tiring. It can stretch our patience. But, our serving others, especially those who are of the household of faith, is never in vain, sister. The Lord desires to use us to do particular works that He ordained for us before the foundation of the world, and our job is to simply, trust, obey, and walk patiently in them. Our strength comes from the Lord, so when those thoughts of weariness come, as long as we’re doing what He’s called us to do, we can wait well for our due season, honoring Him along the way as we take the opportunities He’s given us to do good to all. (Don’t forget, all means all!).

#5: Slow down and learn patience from the Best. 

The LORD is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love. — Psalm 103:8 NASB

The Lord is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not willing for any to perish, but for all to come to repentance. — 2 Peter 3:9 NASB

The beautiful thing about patience (and all other godly characteristics) is that we don’t have to pull it out of thin air and fabricate it ourselves. Patience, just like the rest of the Godly Woman Wardrobe, comes from the Lord! God is love, and love is patient (1 Corinthians 13:4). In His greatest act of love He sent His Son to die on the cross for our sins so that through Jesus, we could be reconciled back to God. And in His great patience, He desires all to come to repentance, not wanting anyone to perish. As we wade the waters of relationships, trials, and service, we need to look no further than our Great Example.
We can wait faithfully for His timing because He is always faithful.

We can be still and patiently listen for Him because His still small voice is always there when we seek Him.

We can trust in His promises because He is not slack to keep them. 

We can wait patiently for the Lord because His sovereign timing is always precise.

What is patience, if the Lord isn’t in it?

Sister, let me now encourage, uphold, and comfort you! Let us no longer question or wonder ‘how to be patient’. We keep our eyes focused on the Lord, remembering that patience isn’t just a “thing” to be possessed. In other words, we’re not to just have patience. None of the fruit of the Spirit and any other godly characteristic is something to simply have or hold onto. We must walk it out; use it. We show patience in our behaviors, our actions, our words, and responses, as the Lord does in our lives. What He does in us and through us, and more importantly, what we have in Him is enough.

“The Lord is my portion,” says my soul, “Therefore I have hope in Him.” The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the person who seeks Him. -Lamentations 3:24-25 NASB

What about you? Do you struggle with patience or does having patience come easily to you? Comment below and let me know!

Missed the intro to the Godly Woman Wardrobe? Find out what Christian women should wear, here.

Pursuing Righteousness: 11 Biblical Tips

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I’m a sucker for Latin. I haven’t studied it a lot and I know it’s a dead language and all, but there is something about the sound of Latin words and phrases that sound so beautiful to me.

A few years ago I designed a canvas print with the words, Coram Deo on it. It means, “in the presence of God,” and it makes me think of Psalm 139:7, where David says there’s not a place he can go where he could flee from the Lord’s presence.

So true, isn’t it?

Soli Deo Gloria

Another Latin phrase I love is Soli Deo Gloria. When I think of this phrase, it begs the question, ‘What does it mean to live righteously?’

Likely, you’ve heard this Latin phrase before. Composers like Johann Sebastian Bach would write it at the bottom of their music. These beautiful words mean, “to the glory of God alone.” 

The pastor at the first church my husband and I attended years ago gave us a book called the Westminster Shorter Catechism. One truth it states is: 

“Man’s chief end is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever.” 

All of life is to be lived for the glory of God.

To live a life that gives glory to God alone, we must study the Word and hide it in our hearts. We need to be diligent to abide in the Lord, pursue Him, and pursue His righteousness. When we abide in Him, we’ll yearn to spend time with Him, sit at His feet, and learn from Him. Understanding how to pursue righteousness starts here.

This is where pursuing righteousness begins.

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What is Righteousness?

We are made righteous in the eyes of God by the blood of Jesus. Through His death and resurrection, and our acceptance of that free gift, our sins are forgiven and God sees us as righteous. This is called justification.

Here’s another big word: sanctification. Sanctification means “set apart”. Those in Christ are set apart for God to live holy lives unto Him. But, sanctification is also a process— one of the continual work of the Holy Spirit in our lives to help us grow in the Lord and become more like Christ every day.

“And I am sure of this, that He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ. ”

— Philippians 1:6

Our behavior and conduct should show the world that we are set apart for God, living for Him— not living for the world. The Lord is working in our hearts and in our lives to draw us closer to Him and mold our character to be more like His.

Bible Verses About Righteousness

The word righteousness appears almost 300 times in the NASB version of the Bible, and this doesn’t even include the number of times we simply see the word, righteous. Needless to say, the Lord has a lot to tell us about this topic. I encourage you to study the many “righteousness “ verses in their context to grow in your understanding of what this truly means for us as believers.

Here are a few Bible verses about righteousness that stick out to me. Grab a good set of Bible pens and highlighters, and mark these for your own, personal study!

Proverbs 21:21: “One who pursues righteousness and loyalty finds life, righteousness, and honor.”

1 Timothy 6:11: “But flee from these things, you man of God, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, perseverance, and gentleness.”

Proverbs 21:3: “To do righteousness and justice is preferred by the Lord more than sacrifice.”

Matthew 6:33: “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided to you.”

As you can see, these Bible verses about righteousness call us to pursue righteousness, do righteousness, and seek righteousness. But really, how do we do that? Let’s dive into it.

Instructions for Living Righteously

Pause for a minute with me, and take a look at the start of Psalm 1:

“Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of scoffers; but his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on His law he meditates day and night.”

— Psalm 1:1-2

As we pay attention to the progression in these verses, we see: walk, stand, and sit. We can be mindful of the company we keep, but we also need to be mindful of how long we are in the presence of things not honorable to the Lord. 

Once we start walking in bad counsel, eventually we get more comfortable and cease movement— which leads to standing amongst it all. And, once we’re comfortable enough to stand and hang out in wicked ways, we sit, relax, and take it all in— and before you know it, we’re also exhibiting those behaviors.

Sister, we can truly live Soli Deo Gloria only if we rely on the Holy Spirit and follow His guidance in our lives. And, that takes some good decision-making on our part as well.

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PURSUE RIGHTEOUSNESS BY PURSUING THE LORD

To get to know the Lord better and what His righteousness truly looks like, we need to spend time in the Word, sis! Dive deeper in your quiet time with God using these FREE Bible study printables. Fill out the form below.

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How to Pursue Righteousness: 11 Biblical Tips

Although you are ultimately made righteous in God’s eyes due to the acceptance of Christ as your Savior, you still live in freedom and can choose whether or not you are actively pursuing a lifestyle that is comparable to that of righteous living. 

So, how can you conduct your life in a way that gives glory to God? 

Grab your Bible and take a look at Psalm 15. You may want to jot this wisdom down in your favorite journal. This Psalm provides solid, practical answers, in the form of dos and don’ts, to the question:

How do you pursue righteousness?

#1: YOU WALK WITH INTEGRITY. Pursuing righteousness leads to a lifestyle that exhibits integrity. You are committed to God’s ways, and you serve the Lord, not yourself.

#2: YOU WORK RIGHTEOUSNESS. Your deeds exhibit justice. You promote good, not evil.

• Examine your life: Ask yourself, “What results flow from my actions?”

#3: YOU SPEAK THE TRUTH IN YOUR HEART. Your speech exhibits reliability, honesty, and the truth of God’s Word. When you’re a woman who is pursuing righteousness, your heart is settled and steadfast on the things of the Lord. Therefore, beginning in your heart, what flows forth should be what is pleasing to Him, for his mouth speaks from that which fills his heart (Luke 6:46). Evil heart intents bring forth evil; but not so with those whose hearts are focused with the Lord and His treasures. You don’t lie, deceive or manipulate, even when it seems necessary or convenient.

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#4: YOU DO NOT SLANDER WITH YOUR TONGUE. Your words matter. It’s always best to uplift and encourage others, speaking things that edify, not tear down. Again, check your heart (Luke 6:44-46)! 

#5: YOU DO NO EVIL TO YOUR NEIGHBOR. I think there’s a good reason why Jesus said that loving your neighbor is the second greatest commandment (Matthew 22:39). It’s not good enough to just not do evil towards someone— you must also go the extra mile to be selfless and others-seeking, as you treat those around you with dignity and respect. 

#6: YOU DON’T TAKE UP A REPROACH AGAINST YOUR FRIEND. This specifically touches on gossip, which is equally wrong whether it’s toward an enemy or a friend. Gossip can be any discussion about someone who isn’t physically present in the conversation, including sharing things about them without their permission. The truth can easily be manipulated or misconstrued, even if it’s by accident.

Our words and actions should always exemplify grace. Oftentimes gossip can happen because there is a desire to put someone down, as opposed to offering grace over their shortcomings. Just as we’d like to receive grace for our shortcomings, we should offer grace to all we come into contact with— including those who may be presently gossiping! Let’s keep the focus on Christ and the fact that He shed His blood, which covers all of our sins.

• Examine your life: When a conversation turns to gossip do you add a negative comment, or do you offer support and grace?

#7: YOU DESPISE EVIL. You see things for what they are—evil is evil. You hate the things God hates. You don’t allow yourself to walk with others in their wicked ways.

#8: YOU HONOR THOSE WHO FEAR THE LORD. You respect fellow believers. You give them grace and encouragement. You can encourage them with your actions and words in person, over the phone, or surprise them by sending a sweet card in the mail!

#9: YOU KEEP YOUR WORD AND DO NOT CHANGE. You hold yourself accountable, no matter how high the cost. 

• Examine your life: Do others see you as reliable and trustworthy? Or do people doubt your follow-through? Do you hold yourself accountable for how you live for the Lord?

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#10: YOU’RE GENEROUS WITHOUT INTEREST. When you live righteously you can give freely, because you know the Lord is your provider. You can give and expect nothing in return.

#11: YOU DON’T TAKE BRIBES AGAINST THE INNOCENT. This means that you cannot be bought. Could someone pay you to compromise your integrity?

To sum it up, David concludes the Psalm with these final words in verse 15: “He who does these things shall never be shaken.” We are solid in our ways when we rely on the Lord in our daily actions and interactions.

Let’s Pursue Righteousness 

In terms of integrity and character, you could say the instructions in Psalm 15 are things the Lord expects of us as believers. These aren’t petty do’s and don’ts; they describe godliness in terms of a maturing character. It can perhaps feel daunting to view “all the things you have to do”; however, there’s no need to look at Scripture in this way. We study His Word. We sit at His feet. He desires intimacy with us and we pursue that intimacy. And, as we do, He changes us to become more and more like Him, being transformed into the same image from glory to glory (2 Corinthians 3:18). Intimacy with the Lord yields righteousness.

Sister, let’s put our thoughts and actions in their proper place. Join me in using this Psalm (and all of Scripture), not as something to hang over our heads to condemn us when we don’t live up to it; but instead, as a means by which we can simply measure our character. With the Lord’s help and guidance, and our desire to remain faithful to His Word, we can pursue righteousness.

We can live Soli Deo Gloria. 

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Blessed Are the Meek...Are You?

I don’t really recall ever hearing my dad yell at me or my three siblings while growing up. Sure, he was stern and authoritative when he needed to discipline us, but I don’t remember him ever flying off the handle. I’ve always had a deep respect for my dad, a respect that led me to never want to disappoint him— not out of fear, but because he doesn’t deserve to be disappointed. He displayed and communicated right from wrong to us as children, constantly went out of his way to do what needed to be done for all of us (and my mom), and didn’t retaliate, fight back, or try to get even if someone ever had a problem with him. 

And he’s still this way today. Soft-spoken, kind, and I honestly can’t think of one person in this world who doesn’t like him.

Do you know anyone like that? Someone who you can describe in one, powerful word: meek.

“Meekness is weakness.” You may have heard that saying before. Or, perhaps no one has said those exact words to you, but you've got the vibe that that's the general consensus of our culture.

In today’s world, a meek and gentle spirit is often mistaken for weakness. A lack of strength. Powerless. Even, being a push-over. We're told to be strong, show everyone how much of an independent woman we are, and how we “don't need anybody.” Use our words, actions, and body language to exert power and force; take control, they say.

But is this the most effective behavior? I mean, sure, it gets the job done. People respond to fear, so if they're afraid of the big, strong woman you are— of course, you can make them do almost anything you want. 

But, as a woman set apart for the Lord is this the life He calls you to? 

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WHAT IS MEEKNESS?

Meekness is the willingness to suffer injury or insult rather than be the one to inflict those insults on others. It produces a mildness in our demeanor and humility in our spirit. Meekness does not grasp for ways to overpower others or seek to be overbearing. There is a gentle, somewhat submissive quality to a person who is meek. 

If you’ve been following our Godly Woman Wardrobe series, you know that meekness is the 4th character trait we are to put on according to Colossians 3:12-14.

“Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do. But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection. ”

— Colossians 3:12-14 NKJV

When we are meek, even if our natural personality tends to be on the stronger side, we choose to yield that powerfulness and instead speak and behave with gentleness for the benefit of others.

Meekness is strength under control.

It’s like what Paul urged the church of Ephesus— to display a lowliness and gentleness; to have patience and bear with one another in love. This is meekness and a worthy way of walking out our faith (Ephesians 4:1-2). 

MEEKNESS IN THE BIBLE

Of course, like any good thing in life, we need to look no further than Jesus for our example of meekness. The Son of God, who left His place in heaven in order to come down and dwell among us, had every right to use His almighty power as He interacted with people. He was questioned, religious leaders tried to deceive Him, and He was provoked. Yet, He always responded with a meekness, never putting the full weight of His power at the forefront. 

He showed His strength in teaching the truth, not in starting arguments. He was bold enough to confront wrong behavior in people, yet gentle enough not to strike them down. Those in His presence felt the weight of His authority (Mark 1:21-22), but He didn’t lord it over them. He came to earth for the people— for us— not to put His deity on display. 

In 2 Corinthians 10:1, Paul, as he prepares to share some hard things with the readers of his epistle, urges the Corinthians “by the meekness and gentleness of Christ.” He desires to boldly share the tough, necessary things they need to hear in a gentle, strength-controlled manner— just as Jesus did.

Even Paul’s personality seemed to reflect a meekness, as, in the same verse, he goes on to say that he was meek when physically in their presence, but bold in his writings to them. Perhaps they thought he was hypocritical or two-faced. Or perhaps— they just didn’t quite understand what true meekness looked like.

Going back even further in time, we meet Moses, whom Numbers 12:3 says was very meek (or humble; or lowly), more so than anyone on the earth. The leader of the exodus learned how to hone that strong passion (that once led him to kill an Egyptian) into a quiet strength that would humbly and obediently walk in step with his God.

Meekness in our lives

So, what about us? What is meekness for us as Christian women, and how does it translate into our own lives? We often think that biblical principles are supposed to look differently for us in today’s world; in our current culture. But sister, God never changes and neither does His Word. So the direction and instruction we read in the Bible apply to us in the same way it applied to those living in those times. With a careful study of the Word, you can find many ways the Lord instructs us in how to live with an attitude of meekness. What is meekness? Dare I say, it conveys strength. Here are just a few thoughts:

#1: Meekness means submitting to God.

We humbly bow to His Word and His will, recognizing that there is no power that we could possess on our own that would fruitfully bring forth the will of God.

#2: Meekness means we let go of our rights.

We realize that our “logical” privileges and rights aren’t greater than our calling as a child of God. Our earthly prestige may bring us fame and attention in this life, but He has so much more for us. We live in a way that knows this to be true, not in a manner that ensures we’re placed on a pedestal above those “lower” than us.

“Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.”

— Matthew 5:5 NKJV

#3: In meekness, we see strength in patience.

We know that even though we’re giving up our privileges and rights now, in our meekness and faithfulness to the Lord, we will inherit the earth. He’s got us. He cares for us. Our meek and mild attitude is not overlooked by Him. His reward is great for those who wait on Him, whether for His enactment of vengeance or simply for direction.

#4: In meekness, we share the truth with love and grace.

We should always be ready to communicate the source of our hope and shed light on our faith, but we do so with meekness— a gentle strength that exudes the power behind the gospel, but in a loving way that allows the hearer to feel the Holy Spirit’s conviction, not our condemnation (1 Peter 3:15).

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STUDY EXAMPLES OF MEEKNESS IN THE BIBLE

God has given us all that’s needed to live a godly life– the answers are found in His Word! Let’s be women who live with meekness, humbly submitting to His blueprint for our lives. Use this FREE Bible study printables packet to aid you during your quiet time. Fill out the form below.

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Blessed are the Meek, Sister

Honoring the Lord is not weak. It doesn’t mean we are less than. It takes more strength to refrain from unleashing the power you have than to actually unleash it. Like a well-trained horse, we know when to humbly submit and how to respond at the moment. Was this not, in fact, the example of our Lord?

There is no need to strive or to pursue a life of power so that our power can cause all things to work together for good for ourselves. No— that is the Lord’s job. Instead, as we allow ourselves to be enveloped with His gentleness, we can rest in His peace, knowing that He will make a way, in His own way. We simply need to trust and be obedient.

Meekness brings forth blessings— not only for you but for those who witness the love of Christ through your gentleness and respect.

Blessed are the meek.

Be blessed, sister!

Bible verses about meekness

Use your FREE Bible Study Printables (see download form above!) and find your own list of Bible verses about meekness! Here are just a handful to get you started. I encourage your to write them down in a favorite journal (here’s my favorite!) so you can be reminded when you need it.

Psalm 37:11 NKJV

But the meek shall inherit the earth, and shall delight themselves in the abundance of peace. 

James 1:21 NKJV

Therefore lay aside all filthiness and overflow of wickedness, and receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls.

James 3:13 NKJV

Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show by good conduct that his works are done in the meekness of wisdom. 

1 Peter 3:15 NKJV

But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear.

‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭4‬:‭1‬-‭2‬ NKJV

I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love;

2 Corinthians 10:1 NASB

Now I, Paul, myself urge you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ—I who am meek when face to face with you, but bold toward you when absent!

See also:

• The life of Hannah: 1 Samuel 1-2:1-11

• The life of Moses: Exodus

• The life of Jesus: Matthew, Mark, Luke, John